Handsome man late 30s or early 40s, wears Lululemon M-F, employed or trust fund?

[Anonymous]

I think people hear Lululemon and assume tight fitting stretchy yoga gear? Lulu makes leisure wear and their men’s pants look almost like normal slim fit dress slacks. Paired with sporty vests or cashmere sweaters or Lulu hoodies, it’s a trendy look. But idk what office or professional career allows this daily no less.

[Anonymous]

That’s basically what my husband wears at his start up job when he’s not on site with a client (minus the in shape part... LOL)

[Anonymous]

He is a made man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My BIL dresses like this (or wears hipster jeans) and he’s not gay (that I know of!) but definitely is way more into clothes and fashion than any woman I’ve met. He works in an office though. He’s too feminine for me (really into cooking and furniture shopping too) but I guess it works for my SIL, especially since she doesn’t do any of that.

It’s a trendy coder bro look, I think. And casual finance bros? I do have young nephews who recently graduated from college that are inside sales, and they can wear anything they want to work. Some kids apparently come dressed like total slobs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That’s basically what my husband wears at his start up job when he’s not on site with a client (minus the in shape part... LOL)

So tech?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s this man at my coffee shop a few mornings per week. Drives a very expensive luxury SUV, with a prestigious college sticker. Well groomed. Nice watch. He’s always wearing Lululemon casual clothing and spotless running shoes or casual sneakers. Is there some high-paying job I’m not aware of that allows this dress code? Or maybe inheritance or SAHD.

IT remote worker in a speciality like AWS.

AWS doesn't pay everyone that well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Strike up a conversation and ask him what he does.

after you boink him

[Anonymous]

I wear Lulu everyday and work from home full-time with really flexible hours. My spouse has his own consulting business and flexible hours, works from home some days, can start later, etc. and will often workout before work.

There are so many people with flexible schedules, working from home or early semi-retired in our neighborhood. That guy would not stand out at all.

I’m sure people don’t think I work because I’m out in workout clothes on breaks or at Whole Foods in workout gear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s this man at my coffee shop a few mornings per week. Drives a very expensive luxury SUV, with a prestigious college sticker. Well groomed. Nice watch. He’s always wearing Lululemon casual clothing and spotless running shoes or casual sneakers. Is there some high-paying job I’m not aware of that allows this dress code? Or maybe inheritance or SAHD.

IT remote worker in a speciality like AWS.

Amazon (Web Services) IT employees work from home and make well into six figures? Or you mean they can wear whatever they want to office?

[Anonymous]

My teenage son would wear these (not gay) and my teenage nephew would, as well (might be gay).

The term used to be metro sexual. It describes straight guys with great hygiene, hair, slim build and fabulous clothes. Not gay son and might be gay nephew both metro sexuals. You should see what DS is wearing tonight for an award ceremony, you'd think he's gay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wear Lulu everyday and work from home full-time with really flexible hours. My spouse has his own consulting business and flexible hours, works from home some days, can start later, etc. and will often workout before work.

There are so many people with flexible schedules, working from home or early semi-retired in our neighborhood. That guy would not stand out at all.

I’m sure people don’t think I work because I’m out in workout clothes on breaks or at Whole Foods in workout gear.

Same here. Just got back from trader joes in my athleisure..made my lunch now back to work!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wear Lulu everyday and work from home full-time with really flexible hours. My spouse has his own consulting business and flexible hours, works from home some days, can start later, etc. and will often workout before work.

There are so many people with flexible schedules, working from home or early semi-retired in our neighborhood. That guy would not stand out at all.

I’m sure people don’t think I work because I’m out in workout clothes on breaks or at Whole Foods in workout gear.

No one is questioning whether or not you work because you're wearing atheleisure - you're a woman. Men however, different standard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There’s this man at my coffee shop a few mornings per week. Drives a very expensive luxury SUV, with a prestigious college sticker. Well groomed. Nice watch. He’s always wearing Lululemon casual clothing and spotless running shoes or casual sneakers. Is there some high-paying job I’m not aware of that allows this dress code? Or maybe inheritance or SAHD.

Anything creative that can be done remotely like writing novels, screenplays, long form articles, making documentaries or films, etc. He could also be into design or has a popular radio show or podcast that you haven't heard of.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:


My teenage son would wear these (not gay) and my teenage nephew would, as well (might be gay).

The term used to be metro sexual. It describes straight guys with great hygiene, hair, slim build and fabulous clothes. Not gay son and might be gay nephew both metro sexuals. You should see what DS is wearing tonight for an award ceremony, you'd think he's gay.

It's funny you bring this up because IME a lot of these men got into gay relationships once it became socially acceptable to do so (but don't always label themselves "gay" - apparently you can have sex with men but not be gay).

There's been a big shift in acceptance of gay relationships since the early 2000s when this term first surfaced.

[Anonymous]

He could be a developed. Lot of those guys don't work every day and hire managers to go on site for them.