Handsome man late 30s or early 40s, wears Lululemon M-F, employed or trust fund?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lululemon?!? Chain store mall wear, ok for workout wear like Nike and UA. May as well be jcrew. If he was a true metrosexual, he would be wearing Supreme, Bape, Off White, Gucci,....

OP is old if she thinks some guy in his late thirties who wears Lulu and still has a college sticker on his car! Is hot shi+. We

A guy in his early 40s could easily have a college freshman aged daughter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear Lulu everyday and work from home full-time with really flexible hours. My spouse has his own consulting business and flexible hours, works from home some days, can start later, etc. and will often workout before work.

There are so many people with flexible schedules, working from home or early semi-retired in our neighborhood. That guy would not stand out at all.

I’m sure people don’t think I work because I’m out in workout clothes on breaks or at Whole Foods in workout gear.

No one is questioning whether or not you work because you're wearing atheleisure - you're a woman. Men however, different standard.

The standards are evolving for men too. Do you see how many regular out and about men are wearing ankle jeans and pants?

I'm in my late 30s and conscious of fashion. and have spent a lot of time around successful, professional gay men as well as straight men. Please remember that what young 20-something men will wear is not the same as what men in their late 30s / early 40s will wear.

We have no evidence that the man in question is gay but men in their late 30s/40s who are fashion conscious in this particular way are probably more likely to be gay, although it certainly doesn't mean he is.

Remember the term “metrosexual”? There are plenty of wealthy “metrosexual” guys in their 30-40s in this area. My DH likes to get a manicure more often than me. He shops at fancy stores and likes nice clothes. And he is definitely not gay. We know lots of guys like this.

Sigh. I knew people would come along and deliberately misunderstand. I don't care what your DH is like. I don't care about the exceptions. I don't care about the screeching and blubbering and self-righteous but but but.... The simple reality and the whole point of my post, was that a man who appears like this in his late 30s / 40s is more likely to be gay. Does it mean he is gay? No. Are all gay men like this? No. But the odds are *higher* that he is. So it is not unreasonable to think he might be gay based on his appearance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:he could easily be a trust funder. I have met dozens of them in NW DC. There is a LOT of family money in this area.

What idle trust fund men do all day in their expensive leisure clothes and luxury SUVs? Coffee at 8am and then...?

If we are lucky, we leave from my slip and we prepare for dessert. You.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s this man at my coffee shop a few mornings per week. Drives a very expensive luxury SUV, with a prestigious college sticker. Well groomed. Nice watch. He’s always wearing Lululemon casual clothing and spotless running shoes or casual sneakers. Is there some high-paying job I’m not aware of that allows this dress code? Or maybe inheritance or SAHD.

Is this in Vienna? Sounds like a dad I know.

What does he do?

Is mainly a SAHD, but has a business related to athletics/personal training (hence the Lululemon).

[Anonymous]

Works are lululemon?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s this man at my coffee shop a few mornings per week. Drives a very expensive luxury SUV, with a prestigious college sticker. Well groomed. Nice watch. He’s always wearing Lululemon casual clothing and spotless running shoes or casual sneakers. Is there some high-paying job I’m not aware of that allows this dress code? Or maybe inheritance or SAHD.

dress code? What company/organization/employer still has dress code other than police, fire, EMT type of jobs.

My company.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear Lulu everyday and work from home full-time with really flexible hours. My spouse has his own consulting business and flexible hours, works from home some days, can start later, etc. and will often workout before work.

There are so many people with flexible schedules, working from home or early semi-retired in our neighborhood. That guy would not stand out at all.

I’m sure people don’t think I work because I’m out in workout clothes on breaks or at Whole Foods in workout gear.

No one is questioning whether or not you work because you're wearing atheleisure - you're a woman. Men however, different standard.

The standards are evolving for men too. Do you see how many regular out and about men are wearing ankle jeans and pants?

I'm in my late 30s and conscious of fashion. and have spent a lot of time around successful, professional gay men as well as straight men. Please remember that what young 20-something men will wear is not the same as what men in their late 30s / early 40s will wear.

We have no evidence that the man in question is gay but men in their late 30s/40s who are fashion conscious in this particular way are probably more likely to be gay, although it certainly doesn't mean he is.

Remember the term “metrosexual”? There are plenty of wealthy “metrosexual” guys in their 30-40s in this area. My DH likes to get a manicure more often than me. He shops at fancy stores and likes nice clothes. And he is definitely not gay. We know lots of guys like this.

Sigh. I knew people would come along and deliberately misunderstand. I don't care what your DH is like. I don't care about the exceptions. I don't care about the screeching and blubbering and self-righteous but but but.... The simple reality and the whole point of my post, was that a man who appears like this in his late 30s / 40s is more likely to be gay. Does it mean he is gay? No. Are all gay men like this? No. But the odds are *higher* that he is. So it is not unreasonable to think he might be gay based on his appearance.

Guess you missed my point. This is very common. Not an exception at all.

[Anonymous]

My friend’s husband is a dental surgeon and dresses like this. Drives an expensive BMW coupe.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Lululemon?!? Chain store mall wear, ok for workout wear like Nike and UA. May as well be jcrew. If he was a true metrosexual, he would be wearing Supreme, Bape, Off White, Gucci,....

OP is old if she thinks some guy in his late thirties who wears Lulu and still has a college sticker on his car! Is hot shi+. We

A guy in his early 40s could easily have a college freshman aged daughter.

Maybe in flyover country. Most professional men in DC don’t marry until they are in their 30s and they have little kids in their early 40s.

[Anonymous]

This thread is so offensive. Or, a throwback to 2003. There's literally nothing "gay" about a man dressing that way. How totally ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Surgeon who puts scrubs on top.

My guess as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He is gay.

Yea. As a guy I didn't even know Lululemon was even an option for guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He is gay.

Yea. As a guy I didn't even know Lululemon was even an option for guys.

[Anonymous]

Gay, works from home in marketing. Partner has a big job and is often traveling. Used to work in a big office with lots of chatty women and is an extrovert, so needs to go to the coffee shop for “human interaction.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wear Lulu everyday and work from home full-time with really flexible hours. My spouse has his own consulting business and flexible hours, works from home some days, can start later, etc. and will often workout before work.

There are so many people with flexible schedules, working from home or early semi-retired in our neighborhood. That guy would not stand out at all.

I’m sure people don’t think I work because I’m out in workout clothes on breaks or at Whole Foods in workout gear.

No one is questioning whether or not you work because you're wearing atheleisure - you're a woman. Men however, different standard.

The standards are evolving for men too. Do you see how many regular out and about men are wearing ankle jeans and pants?

I'm in my late 30s and conscious of fashion. and have spent a lot of time around successful, professional gay men as well as straight men. Please remember that what young 20-something men will wear is not the same as what men in their late 30s / early 40s will wear.

We have no evidence that the man in question is gay but men in their late 30s/40s who are fashion conscious in this particular way are probably more likely to be gay, although it certainly doesn't mean he is.

Remember the term “metrosexual”? There are plenty of wealthy “metrosexual” guys in their 30-40s in this area. My DH likes to get a manicure more often than me. He shops at fancy stores and likes nice clothes. And he is definitely not gay. We know lots of guys like this.

Sigh. I knew people would come along and deliberately misunderstand. I don't care what your DH is like. I don't care about the exceptions. I don't care about the screeching and blubbering and self-righteous but but but.... The simple reality and the whole point of my post, was that a man who appears like this in his late 30s / 40s is more likely to be gay. Does it mean he is gay? No. Are all gay men like this? No. But the odds are *higher* that he is. So it is not unreasonable to think he might be gay based on his appearance.

Maybe her DH is ...