Fighting with husband till 5 am

[Anonymous]

I feel miserable. It was awful.

We are so so toxic.

He will not even apologize for hurting me. I feel like throwing up.

[Anonymous]

Do you have kids? You are obviously both toxic if the fighting went until 5am. Therapy or divorce. If no kids involved I vote just divorce. Then therapy to work on yourself.

[Anonymous]

About what?

[Anonymous]

Hurting you physically?

[Anonymous]

What were you arguing about until the break of dawn?

[Anonymous]

Posts like this are so annoying. I can't even imagine what you must be like in real life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? You are obviously both toxic if the fighting went until 5am. Therapy or divorce. If no kids involved I vote just divorce. Then therapy to work on yourself.

Agree with this. There's something telling that your focus is on his lack of apology for hurting you. You have bigger problems to worry about if you are literally up all night fighting. You should get yourself into therapy for yourself. If you want to save the marriage, try joint counseling as well, but you should also do independent work on yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? You are obviously both toxic if the fighting went until 5am. Therapy or divorce. If no kids involved I vote just divorce. Then therapy to work on yourself.

No kids. Married 5 years.

Husband has been having panic attacks for the past two months. During this time he has been been increasingly short with me and take out his frustrations in me. I get sad and say it’s been awful for me. He blows up and plays victim and how he will kill himself.

[Anonymous]

How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

[Anonymous]

Op just tell the whole damn story instead of trickling out random bits of info.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? You are obviously both toxic if the fighting went until 5am. Therapy or divorce. If no kids involved I vote just divorce. Then therapy to work on yourself.

No kids. Married 5 years.

Husband has been having panic attacks for the past two months. During this time he has been been increasingly short with me and take out his frustrations in me. I get sad and say it’s been awful for me. He blows up and plays victim and how he will kill himself.

You have to be a troll. You can’t be this insensitive. You’re complaining to him about his Panic Disorder? Well, that answers a lot. I’m guessing you’re his trigger. And the reason for arguments dragging out, and no he shouldn’t apologize for hurting your feelings. You seem insensitive and need to practice whAt you preach.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have kids? You are obviously both toxic if the fighting went until 5am. Therapy or divorce. If no kids involved I vote just divorce. Then therapy to work on yourself.

No kids. Married 5 years.

Husband has been having panic attacks for the past two months. During this time he has been been increasingly short with me and take out his frustrations in me. I get sad and say it’s been awful for me. He blows up and plays victim and how he will kill himself.

You have to be a troll. You can’t be this insensitive. You’re complaining to him about his Panic Disorder? Well, that answers a lot. I’m guessing you’re his trigger. And the reason for arguments dragging out, and no he shouldn’t apologize for hurting your feelings. You seem insensitive and need to practice whAt you preach.

Yeah I have no sympathy for OP. Op should be creating a safe space for DH during his panic attacks. Instead she's just causing them to ramp up. And obviously she is so selfish that she doesn't see she should apologize too. You both need therapy.

And no, I don't think OP is a troll. I bet OP is the type that posts on here where guys are always bad and women only react badly because of what men do or don't do. I know someone like her in real life. She's toxic.

[Anonymous]

op - you two need to separate and divorce.

you can always get remarried, at a future date, IF BOTH OF YOU get healthy

[Anonymous]

I hope your husband gets the medical help and emotional support he needs - and more sleep. Panic disorder is a terrible illness. Maybe you could look for support groups for both patients and their families members in your area?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.