Fighting with husband till 5 am

[Anonymous]

We were fighting about whether or not to use Ubers. I think they are safe and he says they are unsafe... hence the panic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were fighting about whether or not to use Ubers. I think they are safe and he says they are unsafe... hence the panic.

Now you really sound like a B. Panic disorders are not rational thinking. Why are you escalating it to prove your point and to convince him you're right?!? Just say...ok. So we won't use an Uber. Is a taxi ok because I'd really prefer we not have to drive/pay the expense of hiring a car to drive us?". There was NO REASON you had.to escalate this. You are a bully and an abuser. You know full well this would ignite his anxiety to the point he would say something mean. And then you could.play "poor little me. He was mean and hurt my feelings". You are disgusting

[Anonymous]

If he is threatening to kill himself, you need to take it very seriously and call 911.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We were fighting about whether or not to use Ubers. I think they are safe and he says they are unsafe... hence the panic.

How do you fight until 5 am over that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

WTAF?? I am just a few years younger and I truly can't imagine fighting about anything, particularly Ubers, all night. How can that conversation even go beyond 5 minutes? Do you or he have substance abuse problems? Because this is just not normal behavior for mature adults.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel miserable. It was awful.

We are so so toxic.

He will not even apologize for hurting me. I feel like throwing up.

Shut your pie-hole.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

WTAF?? I am just a few years younger and I truly can't imagine fighting about anything, particularly Ubers, all night. How can that conversation even go beyond 5 minutes? Do you or he have substance abuse problems? Because this is just not normal behavior for mature adults.

It's because OP has no clue how to deal with a panic disorder. She fights him because she thinks his opinion is wrong. Except when you have anxiety, that doesn't work. So her reaction spiraled him into a panic attack, which caused even more fighting. All this would have been avoided if OP didn't have this toxic need for her opinion to be right and valid on such a silly topic. The whole thing would have been avoided if OP had just said" yes, I can see how it could be unsafe" and then later vented to her friend about her DHs anxiety about it.

[Anonymous]

OP doesn’t sound 61. Possibly 21.l

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

WTAF?? I am just a few years younger and I truly can't imagine fighting about anything, particularly Ubers, all night. How can that conversation even go beyond 5 minutes? Do you or he have substance abuse problems? Because this is just not normal behavior for mature adults.

It's because OP has no clue how to deal with a panic disorder. She fights him because she thinks his opinion is wrong. Except when you have anxiety, that doesn't work. So her reaction spiraled him into a panic attack, which caused even more fighting. All this would have been avoided if OP didn't have this toxic need for her opinion to be right and valid on such a silly topic. The whole thing would have been avoided if OP had just said" yes, I can see how it could be unsafe" and then later vented to her friend about her DHs anxiety about it.

except Ubers are not unsafe.

[Anonymous]

One of you needs to walk away. Not heathy.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

Grow up, OP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

You both need to grow up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

You both need to grow up.

Perhaps it’s early dementia?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

You both need to grow up.

Perhaps it’s early dementia?

Or alcohol or drugs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are you and your husband? What were you fighting about? Why did you stay in the fight and not called it a night at 12:00 am or earlier?

He’s 63 and I’m 61.

You both need to grow up.

Perhaps it’s early dementia?

Or alcohol or drugs.

Or a troll.