How hard is it to start over at age 41?
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Anonymous
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My friend is going through a divorce. She is childless and in good shape.
She seems to feel hopeless about the future. I think anything is possible except maybe having kids. |
Anonymous
| I think she would appeal to some guy who doesnt want kids. She doesnt have baggage or damaged insides so I think she'll interest some guys. |
Anonymous
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She can probably still have kids in her mid 40s if she really wants them...
And even if she doesn’t, 41 is still young! A 41 year old with no kids, in good shape, will have PLENTY of male attention. |
Anonymous
Damaged insides? WTF does that mean? |
Anonymous
| Probably the end of the road if she wants kids, sadly. |
Anonymous
I am curious as well, lol!!! |
Anonymous
| She has her entire life ahead of her! Divorce is hard especially at first but she has the real opportunity to make the rest of her life look however she wants rather than slowly trudging along a pre ordained path until she dies. |
Anonymous
I was wondering the same. Maybe she means that pregnancy damages your insides which is a weird idea. |
Anonymous
| If she's is 41 and fit she will have no problems. She could have her pick of the 50-55 year old men |
Anonymous
I assumed it was related to baggage ... mental/social/emotional damage. |
Anonymous
Not too many miles on her. Or maybe not crazy? Both? |
Anonymous
| Yes, anything is possible, especially if she is open to the idea of dating someone older who has kids. |
Anonymous
| Would your friend be interested in a late-40's widower with three teens? |
Anonymous
| As a 45 year old divorced woman who probably isn’t in as good physical shape as your friend and has the baggage of kids I’ll say she’s going to have no problems at all. And despite what most of the responses have been I’d bet she dates younger. I found I attracted guys 4-8 years younger than myself. The only demographic off limits will be the mid-40’s guys. They all go 10 years or more younger (at least in my experience). |
Anonymous
NP. After 3 kids my exDW had major changes/damage downstairs. |