Tell me about your love language

[Anonymous]

What's your love language? What things does your spouse do that make feel loved?

[Anonymous]

The term “Love language” makes my skin crawl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The term “Love language” makes my skin crawl.

So, not 'words of affirmation' then?

[Anonymous]

I am a woman and it's acts of service. E.g. I will cook your favorite meal when I know you had an exhausting day and you will scrape the snow off my car in the morning.
It seems that this love language is rarer than the others

[Anonymous]

LOL Acts of Service vs F**k Me Baby is the entire story of men and women around here

[Anonymous]

My love language is "give me a fing break, life is hard, grow up, be kind but you are not getting all your emotional needs fulfilled from 1 person, be a whole person 1st".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and it's acts of service. E.g. I will cook your favorite meal when I know you had an exhausting day and you will scrape the snow off my car in the morning.
It seems that this love language is rarer than the others

Lol. This is my husband's and it's annoying. I like presents and sweet words not somebody fixing the garbage disposal. If I need a plumber I will call one. I am a gift giver and he hates it. Thinks I am just creating clutter.

[Anonymous]

Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
Quality Time
Tokens of Appreciation/Gifts

In that order, from most meaningful to least meaningful.

[Anonymous]

Acts of service/Quality time are tied for me
Physical touch is last

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The term “Love language” makes my skin crawl.

So, not 'words of affirmation' then?

[Anonymous]

Next time I get married I am going to make sure it’s not to a woman with “DO STUFF FOR ME BUT DON’T TOUCH ME!” As her love language

[Anonymous]

Barf!!!!!

[Anonymous]

I'm acts of service, my husband is physical touch

typical hetero relationship dynamic, I guess! lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and it's acts of service. E.g. I will cook your favorite meal when I know you had an exhausting day and you will scrape the snow off my car in the morning.
It seems that this love language is rarer than the others

Lol. This is my husband's and it's annoying. I like presents and sweet words not somebody fixing the garbage disposal. If I need a plumber I will call one. I am a gift giver and he hates it. Thinks I am just creating clutter.

Is your marriage happy and fulfilling?

[Anonymous]

DH and I took a quiz a while back and we are both Physical Touch. We scored very similarly on the quiz - lowest for both of us was Gifts - neither of us care about that. His second highest was Words of Affirmation while mine was Quality Time.