Attracting age appropriate men

[Anonymous]

This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

Where can I go to meet that demographic?

Thanks!

[Anonymous]

Clothing optional beaches.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to? I’m having the time of my life with younger guys!

[Anonymous]

I feel like this question has been asked many different ways and the answer is always the same: online.

Specify your age range in your profile and try various sites. It's not my favorite method either but it's where everyone is.

Other than that, try a U2 or James Taylor concert.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this question has been asked many different ways and the answer is always the same: online.

Specify your age range in your profile and try various sites. It's not my favorite method either but it's where everyone is.

Other than that, try a U2 or James Taylor concert.

I don’t want to date online. Are there places I can go to meet that demographic specifically?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

If older men aren't asking you out... it could be that you don't look as young as you think you do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this question has been asked many different ways and the answer is always the same: online.

Specify your age range in your profile and try various sites. It's not my favorite method either but it's where everyone is.

Other than that, try a U2 or James Taylor concert.

I don’t want to date online. Are there places I can go to meet that demographic specifically?

Yes. Do you live in the DC area or are you posting from Michigan's Upper Peninsula?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this question has been asked many different ways and the answer is always the same: online.

Specify your age range in your profile and try various sites. It's not my favorite method either but it's where everyone is.

Other than that, try a U2 or James Taylor concert.

I don’t want to date online. Are there places I can go to meet that demographic specifically?

Yes, out in the wild men can be found virtually everywhere OP. Be the change and ask them out instead.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

If older men aren't asking you out... it could be that you don't look as young as you think you do.

NP. So that's why … younger men are asking her out?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this question has been asked many different ways and the answer is always the same: online.

Specify your age range in your profile and try various sites. It's not my favorite method either but it's where everyone is.

Other than that, try a U2 or James Taylor concert.

I don’t want to date online. Are there places I can go to meet that demographic specifically?

Yes. Do you live in the DC area or are you posting from Michigan's Upper Peninsula?

I live in close in NOVA.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

If older men aren't asking you out... it could be that you don't look as young as you think you do.

Your comment makes no sense. She must be reasonably attractive or she wouldn’t be getting asked out at all, especially if she doesn’t do online dating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

If older men aren't asking you out... it could be that you don't look as young as you think you do.

Your comment makes no sense. She must be reasonably attractive or she wouldn’t be getting asked out at all, especially if she doesn’t do online dating.

She could be attractive for 48, but the fact remains, men age 45 to 55 do not want 48. They probably just divorced 48, and now they want younger.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

If older men aren't asking you out... it could be that you don't look as young as you think you do.

Your comment makes no sense. She must be reasonably attractive or she wouldn’t be getting asked out at all, especially if she doesn’t do online dating.

She could be attractive for 48, but the fact remains, men age 45 to 55 do not want 48. They probably just divorced 48, and now they want younger.

Op here, I don’t think you understand. I’ve dated mostly younger men only adult life because I work in tech and meet lots of men there. I’m fit and attractive and have a great personality. I’m just trying to find slightly older men since I feel like I will have more in common with them. But maybe I’m wrong to judge by age.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is not a terrible problem to have, but I’ve always looked younger than my age. I’m 48 but the men who ask me out are usually mid thirties. I would like to be asked out by the 45-55 set but they aren’t the ones who ask me out. I’m in a profession where there are a lot of younger people so that’s who I tend to meet.

If older men aren't asking you out... it could be that you don't look as young as you think you do.

Your comment makes no sense. She must be reasonably attractive or she wouldn’t be getting asked out at all, especially if she doesn’t do online dating.

She could be attractive for 48, but the fact remains, men age 45 to 55 do not want 48. They probably just divorced 48, and now they want younger.

It doesn't matter what they "want" -- the vast majority 30-something women don't want to date 45-55 yr old men. I've always been much more open-minded about age than my friends, and even I drew the line at 10 years older.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like this question has been asked many different ways and the answer is always the same: online.

Specify your age range in your profile and try various sites. It's not my favorite method either but it's where everyone is.

Other than that, try a U2 or James Taylor concert.

I don’t want to date online. Are there places I can go to meet that demographic specifically?

Yes. Do you live in the DC area or are you posting from Michigan's Upper Peninsula?

I live in close in NOVA.

OK then, get yourself to any one of the usual suspect, high end bars in downtown DC at happy hour (e.g., Capitol Grill, Jefferson Hotel, etc.). These places are full of overeducated, over paid men in the age range you're looking for. They normally outnumber women ten to one, or so it appears to me.

If you're reasonable attractive, you walk in the door and you drop your silk scarf on the floor. Trust me on this...