Anonymous wrote:
You are quite right in acknowledging the trump card of privilege, power and who you know in making the world go round. Indeed, affirmative action for landed gentry and wealthy based on these connections was the rule for a century and a half at elite private schools -- like your beloved STA. As you rightly point out, who you knew trumped what you knew. You also rightly point out this is still the rule at STA. By contrast, what you know trumps who you know at TJ and other free and public magnet programs.
As what you know takes on increasing importance for many of us the preferential treatment from privilege, connections and who you know will slowly fade. You are infected with encephalitis of entitlement. This is a disease that afflicts the minds of many of your kind intoxicated with worship of who you know and not what you know.
For these reasons we strategically opted to take infectious precautions with our children at the young and formative stages of social and intellectual development to avoid entitlement encephalitis. We have put them in the big pond -- prime time -- where they engage with children from all walks and stations in life. They will learn to compete on life's bigger stage, based on what they know and not who they know.
The behaviour and attitudes of parents (and many of their children) like you simply reaffirms our wise decision to turn down the Big 3 for the primary school education of our boys and put our checkbook back in the purse. It's a no brainer.
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Anonymous wrote:
While we have avoided the entitlement encephalitis syndrome by foregoing private primary education it was refreshing to see representation from STA (even if from progeny of DHHS employees). What is quite telling is absent representation from the slew of "Big 3" elite private schools in D.C. that champion first rate and top dollar 21st century education. On the other hand, if subscription to the "who you know rather than what you know" philosophy is still the prevailing and proud operative ... it's no surprise at all.
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To PP:
For the record, my sole posts are above. We may consider a local or distant private for secondary school when we think the kids have adequate protection and immunity from entitlement encephalitis.