Breaking it with the AP

[Anonymous]

How do you break up with your AP that it is a clean cut end? He is not married, we work at the same place, have been hooking up like once a month since last 6 months on common business trips. I decided to work on my marriage and family.

[Anonymous]

Ghost. No explanations. Men get territorial when they think they are losing a good sex partner. Take it from someone who has been there, not married though, and tried to explain that I didn't want to continue.

Its NSA sex, dont give him a string.

[Anonymous]

Leave town.

[Anonymous]

This place is so full of cheaters... Gross

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This place is so full of cheaters... Gross

+1. I’m usually pretty good about ignoring the cheating posts but lately they just seem to be turning my stomach.

[Anonymous]

Tell him you are leaving your h for him and you will never hear him again.

[Anonymous]

Good luck OP.

I recommend telling him it is over, and then blocking him. Get a new job. And work your ass off on your marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell him you are leaving your h for him and you will never hear him again.

Love this one!

[Anonymous]

Your DH will find out and kick your a$& out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tell him you are leaving your h for him and you will never hear him again.

Hilarious!!!
-and possibly true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do you break up with your AP that it is a clean cut end? He is not married, we work at the same place, have been hooking up like once a month since last 6 months on common business trips. I decided to work on my marriage and family.

Just curious... why this sudden realization, and what does working on your marriage and family look like?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do you break up with your AP that it is a clean cut end? He is not married, we work at the same place, have been hooking up like once a month since last 6 months on common business trips. I decided to work on my marriage and family.

Why not just be honest with the guy and tell him you wanna clean cut end?
Is that so difficult...honesty?
Oh - wait - you're a cheating whore I guess honesty is kinda antithetical to your innate tendencies

[Anonymous]

This is a hard one. I would have the conversation with him and see how he reacts. If he’s going to be difficult it might be worth it to find another job. Also, ask yourself how tempted you would be to jump back into bed with him in a few months. If you don’t think you can resist this - let’s say working on your marriage is harder than you expect it to be - or you just miss the presumed great sex you have and your husband isn’t giving you the D the way your AP was - you should ask yourself if breaking up a family would be worth it because ultimately you will get caught if you continue.

[Anonymous]

To be honest, it's much easier to dump a male AP than a female. The man usually just wants sex and affection and will likely back off. AP women are notorious for wanting revenge.

[Anonymous]

Skank. I hope your husband finds out and leaves you or down the road cheats