he wants divorce - happy new year to me

[Anonymous]

Have been separated for several weeks and I thought counseling was the next step, but today dh sprung on me he doesn't want to try to reconcile and wants a divorce. Feeling depressed and hopeless heading into the new year - at the start of last year we were trying for a baby, now I'm almost 32 and have to start over. Please give me some stories of hope, I'm feeling like I'll never find love again or be able to have a family

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry. Life is so hard sometimes. 32 is still so young. It’s a brand new year. Best of luck.

[Anonymous]

32, divorced with no children is not a bad place to be. Take it from someone on the other side of 50.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:32, divorced with no children is not a bad place to be. Take it from someone on the other side of 50.

+1. She should count her blessings.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:32, divorced with no children is not a bad place to be. Take it from someone on the other side of 50.

I so agree with this! Enjoy life.

[Anonymous]

This is a blessing in disguise. Your young.

[Anonymous]

32 is young and count yourself lucky that you didn’t have a child with someone who is not compatible. I divorced st 31 and remarried at 35.

[Anonymous]

I wasn't married, but ended a six year relationship at 32 and felt hopeless as well. Two years later I met my now husband who is light years better for me, an amazing dad and husband. We are married over ten years. I promise this will seem like a blessing some day - this man isn't right for you.

[Anonymous]

Thank the Lord you didn't great pregnant and move on!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank the Lord you didn't great pregnant and move on!

This.

Divorced at 34, remarried at 38. My life is so astronomically better than I ever could have imagined.

[Anonymous]

You're done

[Anonymous]

hit'n the wall.

[Anonymous]

Did he say why he wants a divorce? Why did you separate?

What qualities will you look for in a new mate that will make you happier than this guy did?

[Anonymous]

I’m 50 and recently divorced and I’m loving life. Don’t give up. Find a good therapist. You’re still young!

[Anonymous]

I got divorced at 31. We had one child. I love my daughter more than anything in the world, but it would have been so much easier to move on if I didn't have to see and deal with my ex all the time.

It's a lot harder to start fresh when you have a child. You're also at the age where a lot of men are just thinking about settling down. You'll bounce back, but take care of yourself first before trying to move on too quickly.