Co-ed sleepover, 13 year old

Anonymous
My thirteen year old son wants to attend a co-ed sleepover. Says the boys and girls will sleep in separate rooms, and the parents will be home. I’m shocked this even exists. He says they are all just friends, and I believe that is likely the case. Still, there is no way I am comfortable with this, and am saying no. Just would love to know if this is common.
Anonymous
Nope.
Anonymous
I would only agree IF I knew the parents very well and knew they would be heavily supervising. Otherwise NO!
Anonymous
Ready to be a 45 year old Grandma?
Anonymous
No way.
-parent of a 17 year old and a 13 year old
Anonymous
Yeah, that's a no. I can't believe a parent actually wants to host this. Are they going to be up all night?
Anonymous
Hard NO.
Anonymous
Ick, no. Op, the fact that you choose to ask makes me wonder about your judgement.
Anonymous
No. Been there done that and never a good idea.
Anonymous
Tell us more? Is this for NYE? I wouldn’t.
Anonymous
No. I had friends at that age to and then they became fwb
Anonymous
Hard pass
Anonymous
Given what I know my own friends were up to at that age, hell no.
Anonymous
Nope. No way.

Everyone can hang out until 11-12pm, but single sex sleepover only.
Anonymous
I'm pretty permissive about stuff, but this would be a hard no from me. I'd offer to pick him up at 11 or midnight or whatever, but not to sleep overnight.
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