So I realized my husband is never going to be rich
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Anonymous
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And I mommy tracked myself even before kids. What do I do now?
Sucky part is I’m not professionally driven. |
Anonymous
| adjust |
Anonymous
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Grow up and realize no one owes you a lifestyle.
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Anonymous
| How did you just realize this now? Define “rich.” Do you love him? |
Anonymous
| How old are you OP? |
Anonymous
| Well, you picked him! And your own career! |
Anonymous
| "I just realized I'm never going to be married to a supermodel... What do I do now?" thinks the OP's DH to himself on the way home. |
Anonymous
| I just realized my wife is never going to be thin. |
Anonymous
Hey! You never know! |
Anonymous
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And I realized that my husband will never treat his ADHD and will continue to rotate between underemployment and no employment at all. That he will never understand how much anxiety and pain he has put his family through. |
Anonymous
But will his wife realize she is responsible for choosing poorly? |
Anonymous
Oh believe me, she does! Except that the ADHD was not visible as such when we got married - it was revealed when responsibilities increased, house, kids, etc. That is the curse of ADHD. And he said he’d take his pills when he was first diagnosed. Then changed his mind and now disputes he even has ADHD. I have no respect for him. |
Anonymous
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You can always try to become rich yourself. Plenty of women on this site make more than their husbands.
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Anonymous
+1. It's really not that hard to make money, even as a SAHM. Go to the library and find some books on finance/business. |
Anonymous
| Then it's up to you to make the money OP. |