So I realized my husband is never going to be rich

[Anonymous]

taketothebank wrote:OP - have you really looked at what you contribute to the marrige?

You know that it is totally wrong to expect women to contribute anything other than their Golden Vaginas to a relationship - and when they're married, not even that (you're not entitled to sex, sh1tlord!).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So I just realized my wife is never going to be good at BJs.

Why did you marry her? My wife gives amazing BJs.

Find some tutorial videos put them on a thumb drive and gives it to her as a Christmas gift.

This is so stupid. 75% of good BJ is enthusiasm, which 99% of the time cannot be taught. Women either want to give pleasure or they don’t.

[Anonymous]

I feel for you. I was married to a mentally ill man in my 20s. We divorced and it was amazing to get my life back. That said we didnt have kids or assets and it was an easy divorce legally speaking. I am now married to a healthy man who makes a fine living. We will never be rich but I will never have to be the breadwinner. Funny enough I have told my husband that if I can make a certain salary he can quit working and write a book or whatever and I would totally be fine with it.

It sounds like you cant divorce him because he might want alimony or something. That said unmommy track yourself asap. It might mean going to get another degree or some other PD step. Also is he functional enough not to harm the kids? if so he can stay at home. I know someone who did this with her clinically depressed husband. She put him on kid duty since he couldn't function in the work place and went back for a nursing degree. She makes 85k now and owns a house outright. It can be done. My heart goes out to you! Please get therapy!

[Anonymous]

So you have a few choices- accept that you'll never be rich, figure out how to make money yourself or leave him to try to find someone who is rich (knowing that your odds of this are likely less than they were when you married the first time).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel for you. I was married to a mentally ill man in my 20s. We divorced and it was amazing to get my life back. That said we didnt have kids or assets and it was an easy divorce legally speaking. I am now married to a healthy man who makes a fine living. We will never be rich but I will never have to be the breadwinner. Funny enough I have told my husband that if I can make a certain salary he can quit working and write a book or whatever and I would totally be fine with it.

It sounds like you cant divorce him because he might want alimony or something. That said unmommy track yourself asap. It might mean going to get another degree or some other PD step. Also is he functional enough not to harm the kids? if so he can stay at home. I know someone who did this with her clinically depressed husband. She put him on kid duty since he couldn't function in the work place and went back for a nursing degree. She makes 85k now and owns a house outright. It can be done. My heart goes out to you! Please get therapy!

Wut?!