So I realized my husband is never going to be rich

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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And I realized that my husband will never treat his ADHD and will continue to rotate between underemployment and no employment at all. That he will never understand how much anxiety and pain he has put his family through.

But will his wife realize she is responsible for choosing poorly?

Oh believe me, she does!
Except that the ADHD was not visible as such when we got married - it was revealed when responsibilities increased, house, kids, etc. That is the curse of ADHD.
And he said he’d take his pills when he was first diagnosed.
Then changed his mind and now disputes he even has ADHD.
I have no respect for him.

I know someone like this, but was afraid she wan't being honest with herself, because I never heard her admit it. I am relieved for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"I just realized I'm never going to be married to a supermodel... What do I do now?" thinks the OP's DH to himself on the way home.

x100000

[Anonymous]

MRA troll fail

[Anonymous]

Well, the first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem. Now you have to decide which is the problem: your husband's earning potential or your unrealistic expectations?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
And I realized that my husband will never treat his ADHD and will continue to rotate between underemployment and no employment at all. That he will never understand how much anxiety and pain he has put his family through.

But will his wife realize she is responsible for choosing poorly?

Oh believe me, she does!
Except that the ADHD was not visible as such when we got married - it was revealed when responsibilities increased, house, kids, etc. That is the curse of ADHD.
And he said he’d take his pills when he was first diagnosed.
Then changed his mind and now disputes he even has ADHD.
I have no respect for him.

I know someone like this, but was afraid she wan't being honest with herself, because I never heard her admit it. I am relieved for you.

NP. I’m in the same boat. I can’t get DH to go to a doctor, but he checks every single box for ADHD. This did not manifest until kids and true responsibility came along.

[Anonymous]

Wow

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And I mommy tracked myself even before kids. What do I do now?

Sucky part is I’m not professionally driven.

Try to get an affair going with a rich guy.

[Anonymous]

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Sucky part is I’m not professionally driven.

So you're not professionally-driven and now you're mad because he isn't either? Hypocrisy at its best!

[Anonymous]

Get coffee with the single mom who is lamenting the loss of her rich boyfriend. Figure out what the two of you did wrong and work on a new life plan.

[Anonymous]

So I just realized my wife is never going to be good at BJs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
And I realized that my husband will never treat his ADHD and will continue to rotate between underemployment and no employment at all. That he will never understand how much anxiety and pain he has put his family through.

And you married him? Crazy.

[Anonymous]

Are you hot? If so, divorce and try harder next time.

[Anonymous]

A man is not a plan
My Dh will never be rich either. Hes ok woth it and I’m ok with it. I have kids but didn’t mommy track so we are about on par an together that makes for a very decent living here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just realized my wife is never going to be thin.

She easily could... but that’s your queue that divorce is imminent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So I just realized my wife is never going to be good at BJs.

Why did you marry her? My wife gives amazing BJs.

Find some tutorial videos put them on a thumb drive and gives it to her as a Christmas gift.