Keeping photos of ex on facebook

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 4 months has photos of his ex wife still up on Facebook and she does him. She cheated on him back in April.
I want to tell him I am not comfortable with this, how do I approach it with him?

[Anonymous]

If he wants to have sex with her, he's going to do it whether or not he has photos of her on Facebook. Quit being all needy and insecure.

[Anonymous]

Are they photos with other family members, their children, or if important events? If it’s not a honeymoon pic or something romantic, I fail to see your concern.

Are they divorced or seperated? It’s super soon to be in a relationship with someone that’s recovering from infidelity. Pictures really the least of your concerns. It’s worth checking in with him about it, but if you truly care about him (avd your one mental health) it might be worthwhile to let him release this on his own schedule.

[Anonymous]

Photos of their wedding, holidays, trips out. They were together 14 years and its been a while since they separated so I don't understand it and can't help but feel insecure.

They are separated. It may seem soon but we are in love and very happy about from on my side, the small issues like these photos...

He doesnt have any of her at his home.

[Anonymous]

You really need to let this go.

[Anonymous]

You’re in love??? And he hasn’t even divorced? Or cleaned out his Facebook??!

You’re not in love. This will blow up. Save yourself before it is too late

[Anonymous]

You’re his rebound person. Some people also have better things to do than curate Facebook.

[Anonymous]

We are both in love. Please don't tell me I am not and I am not the rebound.

I didn't ask for opinions on that but on the photos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both in love. Please don't tell me I am not and I am not the rebound.

I didn't ask for opinions on that but on the photos.

If you have this level of certainty, who cares about silly photos?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both in love. Please don't tell me I am not and I am not the rebound.

I didn't ask for opinions on that but on the photos.

If you’re both in love and your not the rebound the pictures aren’t a big deal. Also since your relationship is so secure you should be able to talk to him about your feelings. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Your insecurity could chase him away. He's still married to her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are both in love. Please don't tell me I am not and I am not the rebound.

I didn't ask for opinions on that but on the photos.

He’s not divorced and keeps photos of his wife on social media. When I started dating after getting divorced, I took photos of my ex down. Unless you were the side piece, he should have been preparing to present bad a si vile person. He is not doing that.

Tell him it bothers you, but maybe try not to be bothered by it in the first place. If he doesn’t think it’s a big deal, it’s probably not a secret signal that he’s notmover her.

[Anonymous]

Op. Stop it. Listen to your family.

[Anonymous]

I have a good friend who is very happily married and has never taken down any photos of his previous (and very pretty) girlfriends on social media. His wife doesn't care, but she's a reasonable woman who gets that his world began before he met her and that in the end he chose HER. Grow up.

[Anonymous]

I have a wedding photo of my ex on FB. We were young, hot and in love. We’re still friends and have kids together. You’re insecure.