I mean, you have to hope so. Spit out my coffee reading it just now. |
What’s a joke about it? |
Yes, they left because Madlax Owner, Cabell Maddux has routinely attacked players. (Fired at SJC for that). He sends out nasty emails to kids who leave and cyber bullies them. Just read the article below. He did something similar this past year. His players were caught with hookers at Potomac. There is so much more that I could say. I’m not even saying that you should have your child switch to NL, just pull him out of MadLax. Find the best fit for you guys, as it could be DCE, VLC or NL. https://www.google.com/amp/s/deadspin.com/hey-ungrateful-quitter-emails-from-an-angry-lacrosse-660703941/amp |
I don’t think that NL engages in any slimy behavior that the other programs aren’t also doing. Underhanded recruiting tactics, bait and switch, misleading offers, deep discounts to recruit star players—they all do it. But this attitude—that they are holier than thou—is whats so ridiculous. All of the programs have their warts, but it’s disingenuous to suggest that there is “no better role model For your children.” |
NL for sure has some misleading offers and promotions, but there is no way that they recruit players or give them discounts. This group is not saying that NL is “hollier than thou. Instead, we are trying to warn parents of the dangers of MadLax. Can you elaborate on your “Bait and Switch, or Underganded Recruiting Tactics comment.” I don’t think that it is wrong for a coach to try to build the strongest team possible. The whole reason that they now Next Level 24 players left Madlax was because of the way the head coach (Cabell Maddux - Owner of MadLax ) treated a player who left that team last year. He bullied the kid online, which is completely unacceptable for any adult. He called the kids High School coaches and has been Lambasting him. Maddux has been doing this for years, he once called a college coach telling them to unenroll a player because he was not a good person. This of course, happened after the player switched away from his club team. I have to agree with the comment that there is “no better role model for your children.” Dave has a competitive, yet sportsmanlike behavior when coaching. He is awesome to talk to, and from what I’ve heard, he gives great advice. Read the article below on him. “He cares more than anyone I’ve even seen.” https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/news/recruiting-insider/wp/2015/04/03/its-finally-starting-to-come-together-for-the-heights-lacrosse-team/%3FoutputType%3Damp |
Everyone is reading way too much into this. Madlax owner is a D!CK. PERIOD. That is why the families left. |
| Let's be honest, anybody who owns a for-profit youth sports business, by definition, is going to be slimy. The owners of MadLax, Blackwolf and NextLevel may get slammed the most, but the same criticisms can be leveled at the owners of all the travel lacrosse programs in DC, Baltimore, etc. You can't earn a six or seven figure income based on kids sports without manipulating players and families. That is how the business works. If these owners were good people, they would be volunteering their time as rec coaches and find another way to earn a living. Families should accept the reality of travel lacrosse, or stick to rec. But debating which owner is worse than another based on anecdotal experience is a bit silly. |
It’s important for parents to note the way that other programs treat their players. No one said Next Level is perfect, but it is by far and away the best option of the 3 DC teams (Madlax, Express, Next Level). Express is collapsing at the younger years, and are coached by Dads. Madlax is coached by professionals, but they are jerks. Their owner sends nasty emails to players and their schools. His team was caught with hookers at the McLean School. He assaulted a kid at St. John’s... Next Level has high quality teams, and unlike Express or Madlax, it does not have a any disturbing accusations. What is wrong with making a profit from youth sports? People are providing a service, so they should be payed. It would be different if a team had 30 players on a team (Madlax). That’s just stealing. It’s not like the owners of Express, VLC or Next Level are making a fortune of youth sports. They just make enough to feed their families. |
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all programs have their flaws pros and cons.
Just be happy we have a ton of competitive programs to choose from. |
These are the dumbest types of posts. Why is it "by definition..." I wonder what you do for a living and perhaps you should volunteer all your time and money in performing whatever service or labor you perform. If the county wanted to end this practice, they wouldn't rent their fields or gyms to these businesses. The great thing is you have a choice and don't have to play travel for profit sports. There are plenty of options in the non-profit world to choose from. |
It's about choice and options - there are some clubs teams that driven by $$$ and that's the model they set up - it may work for some kids but not your kid - but thanks for forums like this, it's easier to figure out sooner than later. Parents can complain when they aren't getting value for their family's time and money and they will move on to another team/scenario that makes sense for them. |
This is probably true for the younger kids. But the Mitchells are just as cutthroat and competitive when it comes to the older teams (2025 and up) as any other program in the area. They are running a business like any other program in the area, so that means stacking teams with re-classed players and players who are physically big. And they have no compunction about cutting long-time players in that quest. Again, it's a business for them. |
I'm not sure why there should be an expectation that long-time players don't get cut if better players come along. I've seen it at Madlax and NL and presume it happens at DCE. This is supposed to be the highest level of youth lacrosse in the area. Would you rather they keep your kid on the team but they never play? With regard to re-classed players I feel your pain (my kid was impacted by it a couple of years ago) but, again, they all do it. For better or worse, the rules of the game are set up to allow it. Unless lacrosse adopts age-based universally (probably never happen), reclassed kids (some of which were reclassed years ago for non-sports reasons) are here to stay. |
With COVID, there has been a lot of high school kids reclassing. NL 23 has a Landon kid who reclassed this Summer. NL 25 has a bunch of kids who were on NL 24 and reclassed this year. Two 22's on Episcopal reclassed as 23's after freshman year when they didn't make varsity at stronger lacrosse schools (Landon and SSSAS). Do you get a 5th year? Or do you have to go away to a prep school as Senior? |
yeah, no expectations here--we've been in this world for a while now and seen it all....just trying to give a dose of reality for the PP singing the praises of the Mitchells as if they aren't running a business |