I fought my child's father's new gf.

[Anonymous]

I feel like shit. Our son is 10 months. We were together 2 years. I loved him but he was constantly cheating so I broke things off. It sucked. We've been broken up for 3 months and he got into a whole new relationship with one of the girls he was cheating with. She claims she didn't know about me. Anyway, I hate her. One day we started arguing on social media because she got mad I sent my baby father a funny gif. The thing is through all of this I remained friends with my baby father. We're great co parents and we have a deep bond despite his cheating ways.

So on Friday I saw her at a party with my BD. We all have a lot of mutual friends. As soon as she saw me she started to hug and kiss on him trying to make me jealous. I ended up getting pretty drunk probably because of my emotions but yeah after I had some drinks, I confronted her. We were yelling back and fourth then I stupidly threw my drink at her. She then pushed me. I had on high heels and the floor was wet from my drink so I slipped and fell. She got on top of me and punched me several times before a random guy broke it up, not my baby father who I'm still friends with. He watched the whole thing happen and did nothing.

Am I wrong for wanting to get revenge on both of them? I'm hurt both physically and emotionally. How could he let this woman who he's been with for 5 minutes hurt the mother of his son? So I'm thinking about putting him on child support now. He gets our son every other weekend and doesn't pay me shit. I never asked for anything because I just wanted him to be in his son's life and I liked how we coparented but now he ruined everything so I'm going to petty.

[Anonymous]

I mean you just sound like a shit show. Just calm down and detach otherwise you'll end up on Jerry Springer (is that show still on?). I know it's difficult but you need to stop acting like trash. And you need to control your drinking, for both you and your son's sake.

[Anonymous]

Poor baby. I hope this is just bad fiction.

[Anonymous]

Two separate issues:

1) He should pay child support. That's not your money, it's your son's money, and he's entitled to it.
2) Stop getting into fistfights. And the person you should be mad at, if anyone, is your ex-boyfriend. His current girlfriend doesn't owe you anything.

[Anonymous]

You really need to hoist yourself out of this pigsty social circle, my dear.

Rule 1: only communicate with ex for essential info regarding kid, ie, custody, health, school emergency forms, etc.

Rule 2: avoid gatherings where ex will be, but if you do run into him, be courteous but not friendly. Treat his girlfriend/wife as a polite stranger.

And excuse me, but HE cheated, not her. It's HIS fault. And he didn't even break up your fight. He's not worth the time I'm taking to type this! I don't get this anger for "the other woman". It's the man's fault. You should have thrown your drink at him.

[Anonymous]

Since you got drunk and started a fight, I'm going to say no, you shouldn't get "revenge".

You can only control your own behavior here. Take the high road. Show some grace.

[Anonymous]

He may be the father of your child, but he is NOT your friend.

Get your emotions in check before you possibly end up with harassment or assault charges.

Get a custody and support agreement in place.

[Anonymous]

So you all wouldn't be upset if the father of your child allowed another woman to beat you up and just watched? I f*cking take care of his kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So you all wouldn't be upset if the father of your child allowed another woman to beat you up and just watched? I f*cking take care of his kid.

YOU started the fight. Don't start something you can't end.

You knew he'd be that type of man, he cheated on you, for goodness' sake. How can you be surprised?

And it's YOUR child you're looking after. Do you really want to attach a swear word to your child?

I hope you're a troll, OP. You sound so stereotypically low-IQ and low-class.

[Anonymous]

You are a mom now so grow up, stop getting into drunken bar fights, and try to conduct yourself like a lady not a ho.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So you all wouldn't be upset if the father of your child allowed another woman to beat you up and just watched? I f*cking take care of his kid.

YOU started the fight. Don't start something you can't end.

You knew he'd be that type of man, he cheated on you, for goodness' sake. How can you be surprised?

And it's YOUR child you're looking after. Do you really want to attach a swear word to your child?

I hope you're a troll, OP. You sound so stereotypically low-IQ and low-class.

Ikr! Definitely atypical of DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Poor baby. I hope this is just bad fiction.

This. I think this is a troll.

[Anonymous]

I’d be embarrassed that I wrote this and that anyone who knew me had seen any of this happen.

First off - why are you exchanging funny gifs on twitter with the man who cheated on you and left?

[Anonymous]

Oy. I am sorry you are were deceived by your ex but that doesn't mean you have to roll in the mud with these pigs. You clearly still have feelings for him but why would you want him anymore? He cheated on you and stood back and did nothing while his current gf beat you up. I suspect he got off on seeing you both fight over him. He isn't worth it and you should think about the type of mother you want to be to your son. You have a child to think about now and should want to be better for him.

Regarding child support, as another said, that is owed to your son and you shouldn't think of it as a weapon to be used against ex because he upset you. Go to your local court and file the paperwork asap. Your ex sounds like a real winner and I wouldn't be surprised if this new gf is pregnant soon with his child. You want to make sure to get your child support order before another child factors into the equation.

[Anonymous]

Too much nonsense going on in your life. Focus on your kid don’t worry about some random girl .

And filing for child support is not revenge. It is money is for the benefit of your child. You are not focusing o by our child if you are worried about his father getting mad at you or not like you. That means you are still caught up in focusing on yourself.