I fought my child's father's new gf.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I feel like shit. Our son is 10 months. We were together 2 years. I loved him but he was constantly cheating so I broke things off. It sucked. We've been broken up for 3 months and he got into a whole new relationship with one of the girls he was cheating with. She claims she didn't know about me. Anyway, I hate her. One day we started arguing on social media because she got mad I sent my baby father a funny gif. The thing is through all of this I remained friends with my baby father. We're great co parents and we have a deep bond despite his cheating ways.

So on Friday I saw her at a party with my BD. We all have a lot of mutual friends. As soon as she saw me she started to hug and kiss on him trying to make me jealous. I ended up getting pretty drunk probably because of my emotions but yeah after I had some drinks, I confronted her. We were yelling back and fourth then I stupidly threw my drink at her. She then pushed me. I had on high heels and the floor was wet from my drink so I slipped and fell. She got on top of me and punched me several times before a random guy broke it up, not my baby father who I'm still friends with. He watched the whole thing happen and did nothing.

Am I wrong for wanting to get revenge on both of them? I'm hurt both physically and emotionally. How could he let this woman who he's been with for 5 minutes hurt the mother of his son? So I'm thinking about putting him on child support now. He gets our son every other weekend and doesn't pay me shit. I never asked for anything because I just wanted him to be in his son's life and I liked how we coparented but now he ruined everything so I'm going to petty.

Trump's America ladies and gentlemen! Jerry Springer (or more likely one of his lesser watched spin-offs) would like you to call please.

[Anonymous]

I think OP meant to post on BabyCenter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You threw a drink at her... what were you expecting, a hug? Focus on your 10 month old baby ffs.

idk what I was thinking when I threw the drink. It was dumb of me but I thought he would at least try to stop her. He stood there and watched. I would never let a guy i'm dating beat him up.

lol! As if that's the first drink you ever threw! I also don't believe the bolded as children/those who think like children love drama in any form that can get it.

[Anonymous]

If you are real, you have a problem. You are not dating this person. You have no relationship with this woman at all. Except that she probably spends time with your child. So it would be really good if she was your ally. Instead, you yell at her publically for no reason and then throw a drink at her. I feel sorry for your child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Two separate issues:

1) He should pay child support. That's not your money, it's your son's money, and he's entitled to it.
2) Stop getting into fistfights. And the person you should be mad at, if anyone, is your ex-boyfriend. His current girlfriend doesn't owe you anything.

Yes to both these things. Get child support, not for YOU, but for your son. If the dad bails because you asked him to pony up, that's his problem. And he'll still owe you money.

[Anonymous]

Girrrrrrllllll

Trifflin!

[Anonymous]

Happiness is the best revenge. Get out of that circle completely, no more contact with horrible ex except by text for neutral exchanges.

I sense he was enjoying the cat fight, very low mentality.

Whatever it takes, education, change of zip code, friends, etc. ELEVATE yourself. Hopefully then you will laugh at how silly you were to get involved with these losers to begin with.

[Anonymous]

This has to be the troll who admits she trolls and just copies and pastes stories from other websites.

If it's not, Ha! OP, sounds like SHE fought YOU. And won.

[Anonymous]

I know what the term "baby daddy" means but I've never heard people use it themselves like this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I would not expect his loyalty to be with you. It wasn’t even when he was in a relationship with you. Hope this is a lesson to you. Get child support - it’s not for you; it’s for your child. Move on from your unrealistic expectations of this guy. He’s shown you who he is over and over again. Good luck to you and your child.

This!

Also being fighting mad at the other woman because you *think* she knew about you, but staying "good friends" with the man who definitely knew he was supposed to be faithful to you while he was screwing other women? OP you sound like an absolute idiot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think OP meant to post on BabyCenter.

I wrote a similar comment, which was deleted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Poor baby. I hope this is just bad fiction.

This. I think this is a troll.

Worse than that. A troll trying to sound Springeresque.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So you all wouldn't be upset if the father of your child allowed another woman to beat you up and just watched? I f*cking take care of his kid.

You take care of your kid, for the kids sake. Not for your own adolescent level ego trip.

[Anonymous]

Press charges on her for beating you up. That's how you get revenge.

[Anonymous]

Get that child support. Don't worry about revenge. She's dating a serial cheater, she'll have her day.