I fought my child's father's new gf.

[Anonymous]

Jerry Springer show next week- you can be on that. I stopped at "BD." Grow up

[Anonymous]

First off -
Glad you both are okay & that neither of you were arrested.
Consider this a lucky break.

Second of all.....
Why is ALL of your anger directed at this new girl?
Your anger is going to the WRONG person dear.
Trust me, if it wasn’t her, it would have been some other floozie.
I promise you.

My best advice is to be civil w/your ex since you do share a child w/him.
But he is definitely NOT your friend.
In fact, far from it.

Friends don’t cheat each other out nor do they not defend another person physically hurting them.
I feel bad for the new girlfriend too.

She is seeing a guy who doesn’t have her back.
He watched her get in the fight too & he didn’t take any step to defend her.

Be grateful.
He is her problem now.

[Anonymous]

Where is your 10 month old baby while you're off partying. Please grow up, focus on your child, take up a hobby and get your head right. You chose to have a baby, so now act like an adult. And stop with these "tests" of your Ex. He was clear that he didn't want to be with you by cheating on your repeatedly. Have some self-respect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Give this poor kid up for adoption so he can escape your shitty trash show.

+1. You and your ex are crappy parents. Do the kid a favor.

[Anonymous]

No, I would not expect his loyalty to be with you. It wasn’t even when he was in a relationship with you. Hope this is a lesson to you. Get child support - it’s not for you; it’s for your child. Move on from your unrealistic expectations of this guy. He’s shown you who he is over and over again. Good luck to you and your child.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Get a written custody order in place
File for child support
Get therapy. Your low self-esteem has already really hurt your child. Get help now before you ruin your lives even more.

The man who impregnated you is not your friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Give this poor kid up for adoption so he can escape your shitty trash show.

+1. You and your ex are crappy parents. Do the kid a favor.

+2. Or the cycle will just repeat.

[Anonymous]

I hope this isn't real. Do people really live like this?

[Anonymous]

OP all of the adults sound like pure trash. Including you. Getting drunk into fistffights around kid warrants CPS getting involved. You are a loser.

[Anonymous]

Go back and get a rematch. This time whoop her ass.

[Anonymous]

Please contact Maury, not dcum.

[Anonymous]

You'd better be careful, because that fight alone may be the start of the ammunition he needs to go for full custody.

Always remember, if you're doing, saying or acting in a way that you'd be ashamed, afraid or embarrassed if a family court judge heard, then DON'T do it.

[Anonymous]

Jeff, pleeeease tell us this is a troll. This poor baby with these individuals for parents... I can't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Too much nonsense going on in your life. Focus on your kid don’t worry about some random girl .

And filing for child support is not revenge. It is money is for the benefit of your child. You are not focusing o by our child if you are worried about his father getting mad at you or not like you. That means you are still caught up in focusing on yourself.

This. Your son should be your priority and focus--child support is for him. Getting control of your drinking and partying is for him. Yes, his dad is behaving like a dirtbag, but you don't have to follow.
Also, for pete's sake do NOT have another child with this man or any other man that behaves as irresponsibly as your BD.