My husband and I met at medical school at Hopkins. I went to a dinky Christian school for undergrad and he went to a second (or even third?)tier state school. |
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I will take this to the grave: K-12, especially 9-12, education matters 1000x more than which college you attend. ex.
Sidwell + UMich > public lifer + Ivy Georgetown Prep + Villanova > public lifer + UChicago Boarding school + UVA > public lifer + Duke I've seen dozens of kids squander "elite" college because their crummy public school made them a fish out of water. And I've seen polished private school kids come out of public flagships and set the world on fire. |
So be born rich, kids. |
Last I checked financial aid is avail at any half-decent private school. |
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Bringing this Back. This person makes the most sense out of anybody on this board. It’s so obvious who had the I really go to Quetion here. Their justifying themselves way too much. I trust somebody who actually hires people vs somebody who thinks they should be hired. |
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If you go to grad school (law, medicine, PhD), it probably doesn't matter. At least, I don't care to argue with all of the "I went to a dinky Christian school and then Hopkins med school and I turned out fine!" posters here.
But for everyone else, the name of the game is on-campus recruiting. Many of us are too old to really understand the importance of OCR; in my day it was fairly optional unless you are going into certain fields like i-banking or consulting. But now it is much more important; jobs that are offered through OCR simply aren't offered to the general public or even to students outside of a small number of chosen schools. Tech firm A may recruit at both School X and School Y, but the School X positions may be core engineering positions while the School Y ones are support positions at a regional office. OCR is important in tech, finance, management consulting and other fields. See this (highly critical) HBR article for how it works: https://hbr.org/2015/10/firms-are-wasting-millions-recruiting-on-only-a-few-campuses Yes, where you go to school absolutely does matter if you're not going to be a doctor, lawyer or professor - the vast majority of kids; including the vast majority of those who intend to be doctors, lawyers or professors (those fields have a nasty cut). |
Michael Che went to one of NY's prestigious application-only public high schools, which is an argument for the poster who said secondary eduction is more important. Also, Colin Jost was a writer for SNL before he was a performer. Not many writers for NBC comedy are high school graduates-only (although I'm sure there have been a few). |
These unlesses are doing a lot of work, especially as many Ivy Leaguers would rather be a mid-level grunt at Goldman Sachs, Amazon or the CIA than work their way up at a random F100 company. Money is good but prestige means a lot too. I highlighted "almost" too because it's also doing a lot of work. Bulge bracket banks and bigtech are areas where it is not really possible to work your way to the very top from the community college level. Maybe there is a counterexample or two, but there are not many. |
This. The ivy education only matters if you stay in the careers and locations where it matters. I moved back to the Midwest, and my ivy grad degree + top-25 undergrad are actually a disadvantage when the people doing the hiring went to Indiana Tech or Oklahoma State or something. The number of rude comments making fun of my education from coworkers is astounding. People definitely want to "put me in my place". I'm also a minority woman who has always worked in overwhelmingly white workplaces, so that definitely plays into people seeing my ivy degree as "uppity" and wanting to put me in my place. |
The douchebaggery lives … at least until we burn down the country clubs and get heads on pikes! |
THIS! My biggest regret was not taking advantage of opportunities to make connections with professors and other students. Spent my 4 years intoxicated with my small circle of friends. |
| 100% yes; It stays on your resume and influences your circle. I know a 40+ year old never married because UVa taught him he's hard to live with. Racist bullying scars you and effects your confidence. You get rejected from jobs and are seen differently at competitions. You can learn at home free, but go to school with best experience and best payment system. |
| Law school or politics ..yes. Otherwise..no. |
Or spend the college money you were saving for an elite private high school? And then hope that they get scholarships or something? |