Sister books the same wedding venue I wanted to get married at

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I understand that this makes you sad. But you have to recognize that the anger toward your sister stems from jealousy. Envy is never a good choice ... you need to acknowledge it, give yourself some time to process it, and then let it go. Don't let your bitterness ruin this event or your relationship with your sister.

Her sister might habitually take over things. It’s not uncommon. It sounds like there are a few unhealthy dynamics at play. Jealousy might be one, or not a factor at all.

[Anonymous]

OP here. I don't really care anymore. I vented and now I feel OK.

[Anonymous]

The weirdest thing and most sad part about this whole thread is that OP is jealous of her sister instead of being excited that her sister gets to do something that OP wished she could have done. I am literally thunderstruck that anyone would be upset about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I don't really care anymore. I vented and now I feel OK.

And I still feel like you're childish and jealous. Whew! I vented about it, and now I feel better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I don't really care anymore. I vented and now I feel OK.

Awesome. But the real question is, are you habitually this petty?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I don't really care anymore. I vented and now I feel OK.

And I still feel like you're childish and jealous. Whew! I vented about it, and now I feel better.

^
Dear not funny PP above, I suspect you’re the one that drives everyone batsh1t when you overdo it on the margaritas. All the slights dissected, all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I don't really care anymore. I vented and now I feel OK.

Good to hear, Love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I don't really care anymore. I vented and now I feel OK.

And I still feel like you're childish and jealous. Whew! I vented about it, and now I feel better.

^
Dear not funny PP above, I suspect you’re the one that drives everyone batsh1t when you overdo it on the margaritas. All the slights dissected, all the time.

NP. Huh?

[Anonymous]

Oh OP, you are a brat.

You're one of those people who can never be happy for others when good things happen to them - you always just feel sad for yourself, like it's a personal slight.

Girl, you got major issues.

[Anonymous]

Sister should have been more tactful. There are plenty of wedding venues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Also her wedding decor pinterest board is a copycat of mine.

How am I not supposed to be annoyed?

How long have you been married???

All wedding stuff looks the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'd be annoyed too. My SIL's wedding was pretty much identical to mine: colors, theme, flowers. They weren't involved in my wedding at all, but for her wedding they raved about how unique and beautiful it was. I just rolled my eyes.

I don't have a sister, but I'd be happy with a friend who got married at one of my dream places and would be happy to participate.

Every wedding is basically the same. Don’t flatter yourself. I bet if we all posted our details, there’d be tons of overlap.

What?! You used burlap and chalkboards?! You stole my idea!!!!!

You wore a white dress? Why are you so obsessed with me?

[Anonymous]

Guarantee OP's going to be divorced within 3 years with this catty attitude - almost certainly got married for the totally wrong reasons.

[Anonymous]

I’m so glad I got married well before wedding Pinterest boards were a thing.

[Anonymous]

You should plan to have a traumatic event the night of the rehearsal dinner. Check into the hospital and be pissed that your family still chooses to hold the dinner.