Anonymous wrote:Based on my observations of friends who have married these types of guys, see below:
1. Looks
These types of guys seem to go for a certain type of look in their girlfriends and wives. Thin with a tendency towards skinny, and in shape. Your body should be toned and trim by workouts such as The Bar Method and The Tracy Anderson Method.
When it comes to hair and makeup, keep things simple. Do not go down the Kylie Jenner Lip Kit path. Well-to-do men want classic beauty and elegance. The focus is on presenting yourself in a way that you are neat, well groomed and a vision of health. Master the no makeup makeup, and realize this does not mean not wearing any makeup.
Hair should be simple and a within a few shades of your natural hair color. No crazy hair dyes or quirky bangs.
Your outfits are clean, classic,
preppy and feminine. Emphasize the fact that you are a woman.
Think dresses, soft fabrics and flattering feminine silhouettes.
You do not have to be a 10, but you must style yourself and take care of yourself as if you are one.
2. Intelligence
It is a myth that high value men prefer hot dumb bimbos. These women spend a lot of energy and time on their looks but they also are very intelligent. Some of them may not be book smarts but behind their beautiful and well manicured facade, they bring a lot of emotional and social intelligence. They understand that what their man wants from them is pure femininity and everything that comes with that. They are the social gatekeepers and the determine the values upheld by their social class. They have to be quick witted, be able to socialize and charm people with many different personalities and social stations. They also need to be able to keep up with the news and business so they can keep their hard working husbands engaged. Schooling and educating children is a priority and there is more to it than picking out the right pre-school or nanny. You also want to be able to succeed and thrive among the women in that class so social skills and approval of the other women is very important.
You need to keep up with current and classic trends in fashion, food, entertaining and decor. You ARE the one who will be setting the standards. Impress his colleagues and their wives.
3. Personality
Every girl I know who is dating or married to a high earning man, seems to intuitively understand that he comes first. She is laid back and goes with the flow. He sets the schedule and the rules. She of course has power and can provide input on where to eat or where to buy the house, but he has final say. She does not think this is odd; she trusts his judgement and respects him. She adores and celebrates her man and lets him know that as far as she is concerned, he is the most important person in the room. Nagging wives need not apply!
Be easy going and easy to please. Everything he does for you is the best thing ever. Stroke his ego.
4. Girly
Take pleasure in your femininity and womanhood. Relax that frown and smile and be inviting, warm and pleasant. Stay away from drama. Do not yell or have strong ugly opinions. Be a lady.
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