Type of woman a “high value” man would want

[Anonymous]

https://www.forbes.com/power-women/#37f37bc85e25

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:another one of these threads?

seriously.

Here it is again:

1. low drama
2. likes sex, having fun
3. attractive, but not model attractive, just reasonable.
4. low drama

[b]Barbies only need apply. Or blow up dolls.

[/b]

This comment is hilarious! If they only had a brain

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I asked my husband and this was his response-

-You loathe any form of drama and always stay level headed and down to earth.
-You're not needy. In the early days, I could bring you to a family party or work function and you could mingle by yourself and didn't need my constant attention.
- You always put effort into establishing relationships with my family and friends. He said he was shocked the first Thanksgiving when I voluntarily set the table for his grandma without knowing his family yet. I didn't think much of it.
- You have a knack for making a house a home. You make everywhere feel homey and cozy.
-I noticed right away you've maintained relationships your entire life. You still have your best friends from Kindergarten, high school, and college.

Do you work?

Are the women spouting all of this 'high value' crap and landing a certain type of man all SAHMs or aspiring SAHMS.

I doubt there are any aspiring Ruth Ginsbergs, Cheryl Sandbergs, Nancy Pelosis or Dr. Brix, etc. worried about this stuff.

It is so pathetic. Didn't your parents (too all of these pps) teach you to aspire to anything beyond being a housewife?

Apparently not. Losers

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I asked my husband and this was his response-

-You loathe any form of drama and always stay level headed and down to earth.
-You're not needy. In the early days, I could bring you to a family party or work function and you could mingle by yourself and didn't need my constant attention.
- You always put effort into establishing relationships with my family and friends. He said he was shocked the first Thanksgiving when I voluntarily set the table for his grandma without knowing his family yet. I didn't think much of it.
- You have a knack for making a house a home. You make everywhere feel homey and cozy.
-I noticed right away you've maintained relationships your entire life. You still have your best friends from Kindergarten, high school, and college.

Do you work?

Are the women spouting all of this 'high value' crap and landing a certain type of man all SAHMs or aspiring SAHMS.

I doubt there are any aspiring Ruth Ginsbergs, Cheryl Sandbergs, Nancy Pelosis or Dr. Brix, etc. worried about this stuff.

It is so pathetic. Didn't your parents (too all of these pps) teach you to aspire to anything beyond being a housewife?

There is this fantasy that ever women can be the all star. In reality there are not many people(men or women) who make it big and it because most lack the talent, drive, luck and/or opportunity.

[Anonymous]

^ nobody is saying make it big. They are saying have aspirations besides just marrying a dude so you don’t have to work.

Always have your own income/retirement.

My spouse makes $500k and I always kept my job in STEM. I WAH and make more than OP’s $150k (lol) so can always walk out of he cheated or mistreated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

OP sounds like a dumb, bimbo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

OP sounds like a dumb, bimbo.

Or maybe wants a husband she doesn’t have to support or if she has a baby doesn’t have to worry about needing to take time off without pay. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can get you a whole lot closer to happiness if money if not something you need to worry about. A woman would be stupid, no matter how much she makes or doesn’t, to not seek out a man that is professionally successful and able to make a good living.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

OP sounds like a dumb, bimbo.

Or maybe wants a husband she doesn’t have to support or if she has a baby doesn’t have to worry about needing to take time off without pay. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can get you a whole lot closer to happiness if money if not something you need to worry about. A woman would be stupid, no matter how much she makes or doesn’t, to not seek out a man that is professionally successful and able to make a good living.

A woman would be stupid to not have a career herself before 'seeking' to find a man so she can retire for life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

OP sounds like a dumb, bimbo.

Or maybe wants a husband she doesn’t have to support or if she has a baby doesn’t have to worry about needing to take time off without pay. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can get you a whole lot closer to happiness if money if not something you need to worry about. A woman would be stupid, no matter how much she makes or doesn’t, to not seek out a man that is professionally successful and able to make a good living.

A woman would be stupid to not have a career herself before 'seeking' to find a man so she can retire for life.

Flip side: a man would be stupid to marry a woman who has no means to support herself. Baggage for life.

You never know what can happen in life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

OP sounds like a dumb, bimbo.

Or maybe wants a husband she doesn’t have to support or if she has a baby doesn’t have to worry about needing to take time off without pay. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can get you a whole lot closer to happiness if money if not something you need to worry about. A woman would be stupid, no matter how much she makes or doesn’t, to not seek out a man that is professionally successful and able to make a good living.

A woman would be stupid to not have a career herself before 'seeking' to find a man so she can retire for life.

Flip side: a man would be stupid to marry a woman who has no means to support herself. Baggage for life.

You never know what can happen in life.

Smart men know this and look for women that check all of the boxes. They can smell a chick looking to just sit on her @ss a mile away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think there are two types of wealthy men, those who want to be challenged and intellectually stimulated by their partner, and those who want a trophy partner. Obviously the qualities of those two types of partners would vary widely.

+1

This is the answer

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think there are two types of wealthy men, those who want to be challenged and intellectually stimulated by their partner, and those who want a trophy partner. Obviously the qualities of those two types of partners would vary widely.

+1

This is the answer

I would only want to be in the first type of marriage. I see so many awful marriages with the 2nd type in the later years. Who wants to talk to a houseplant that can only discuss Real Housewives and merely wants to spend your $?

Plenty of hot AND smart women. No need to get one that doesn't work or have much going on upstairs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sorry...I'm going to laugh here.

WTF? High value man? I'm a GS-14 woman making $185k with my EOY bonuses. I do not categorize me as 'high value' or 'low value' and good God--not based on salary. That really tells you nothing about his character or morals and only that you are solely looking as a partner as a ticket to never work.

Here's a novel idea: earn your own $ first.

Agree. I don't think $150k is that high a salary either, btw. I don't think most professional woman would.

Not in this area, no. I think we're talking $300k minimum.

OP sounds like a dumb, bimbo.

Or maybe wants a husband she doesn’t have to support or if she has a baby doesn’t have to worry about needing to take time off without pay. Money can’t buy happiness, but it can get you a whole lot closer to happiness if money if not something you need to worry about. A woman would be stupid, no matter how much she makes or doesn’t, to not seek out a man that is professionally successful and able to make a good living.

A woman would be stupid to not have a career herself before 'seeking' to find a man so she can retire for life.

Of course. Go after the best of everything

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Many posts on this forum about various women wanting to marry a high status man with an income of above 150k. The replies are always some variation of traits or qualities the OP must possess to meet her goal.

So what type of women do these guys want?

My ex, who is high value at face value and earns over $400k, left me for a woman who was also not yet divorced. They met on FB and hooked up a few times before they decided to blow up both of their lives. She moved away from her teen child to take up with my "high value" ex. So I guess some high-value men just like anyone who is desperate enough to validate them.