S/O: What do DW’s fantasize about?

[Anonymous]

I fantasize about various forms of exhibitionism (breasts against the glass; public places) but generally not willing to act on it. Have been been quasi public before (our backyard for instance) but I fantasize about more.

[Anonymous]

I fantasize about a beach, a glass of wine and a clean house with all the food made for me.

[Anonymous]

Tied down and teased.
And then while I’m there, helpless, he cleans the whole apartment without asking me any questions about where something goes. He sweeps the floor without being prompted. He walks the dog without being asked. He realizes the car is almost due for maintenance and makes the appointment without involving me.
Then, untied and sex.

[Anonymous]

Leaving my libido-less husband.

[Anonymous]

What is it about the rough sex fantasy? Being overcome physically? Uncontrollable desire for you?
Do you envision a larger, more muscular man?
It’s a hot fantasy and it’s been mentioned a few times. Confess your secrets, sexy anonymous women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leaving my libido-less husband.

Preach.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Leaving my libido-less husband.

He's libido-less for you because Hottie Office Assistant is taking care of him on business trips

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is it about the rough sex fantasy? Being overcome physically? Uncontrollable desire for you?
Do you envision a larger, more muscular man?
It’s a hot fantasy and it’s been mentioned a few times. Confess your secrets, sexy anonymous women.

NP, I didn't post the original. But for me, it is part of the giving up of control. Yes, I want my SO to have an uncontrollable desire for me (who doesn't want that???), having a man TAKE what he WANTS from me (rather than asking and tiptoeing around). It's about passion! I want my man to take control, take me, want me, and demand from me, and leave me at his mercy. It's the exact opposite of driving the kids to swim practice, of making dinner every night, of making sure all the forms for school are signed and bills are paid. It's the ZING that keeps things from being routine. It counteracts the responsiblity you have on the job, as a mother, as a neighbor and member of a community.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is it about the rough sex fantasy? Being overcome physically? Uncontrollable desire for you?
Do you envision a larger, more muscular man?
It’s a hot fantasy and it’s been mentioned a few times. Confess your secrets, sexy anonymous women.

I’m not really sure I know what rough sex is! If it involves hard slapping, choking or other stuff like that I want nothing to do with it. But count me in if it involves some spanking, wrestling and the bedding ending up on the floor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What is it about the rough sex fantasy? Being overcome physically? Uncontrollable desire for you?
Do you envision a larger, more muscular man?
It’s a hot fantasy and it’s been mentioned a few times. Confess your secrets, sexy anonymous women.

NP, I didn't post the original. But for me, it is part of the giving up of control. Yes, I want my SO to have an uncontrollable desire for me (who doesn't want that???), having a man TAKE what he WANTS from me (rather than asking and tiptoeing around). It's about passion! I want my man to take control, take me, want me, and demand from me, and leave me at his mercy. It's the exact opposite of driving the kids to swim practice, of making dinner every night, of making sure all the forms for school are signed and bills are paid. It's the ZING that keeps things from being routine. It counteracts the responsiblity you have on the job, as a mother, as a neighbor and member of a community.

My husband is almost always wanting to know what I might enjoy on a particular evening which is very sweet since it’s not always the same. But some nights his level of desire is such that he gets very physical and really has his way with me. Sometimes I have to back him off a bit but most times it takes my breath away. Either way I’m always satisfied.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Tied down and teased.
And then while I’m there, helpless, he cleans the whole apartment without asking me any questions about where something goes. He sweeps the floor without being prompted. He walks the dog without being asked. He realizes the car is almost due for maintenance and makes the appointment without involving me.
Then, untied and sex.

Sounds anal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tied down and teased.
And then while I’m there, helpless, he cleans the whole apartment without asking me any questions about where something goes. He sweeps the floor without being prompted. He walks the dog without being asked. He realizes the car is almost due for maintenance and makes the appointment without involving me.
Then, untied and sex.

Sounds anal.

Sounds boring.
I'd rather he slap me on the a$$ a couple of times and ask/tell me to wash the kitchen floor naked, then take me on the not fully clean floor. >>> fantasy, not reality!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tied down and teased.
And then while I’m there, helpless, he cleans the whole apartment without asking me any questions about where something goes. He sweeps the floor without being prompted. He walks the dog without being asked. He realizes the car is almost due for maintenance and makes the appointment without involving me.
Then, untied and sex.

Sounds anal.

Sounds boring.
I'd rather he slap me on the a$$ a couple of times and ask/tell me to wash the kitchen floor naked, then take me on the not fully clean floor. >>> fantasy, not reality!

Shoot, I'm making myself horny.

[Anonymous]

A full night of sleep, a fully stocked refrigerator, a sparkling clean house.

[Anonymous]

A fully decorated granny pod in the backyard, with a lock to which only I have the key.