I get that poverty adds stress. I said that above it goes hand in hand in a way. But this is where the family structure plays a role. Having a proper family unit can insulate children from going the wrong way, or at least guide them to try. This is not a resolve of racism. It just how to get by and not get lost. If children already start off out of wedlock or no male role model and poverty, they lost the first teacher in life already. For the IEP yes it has taken me time too, but through education I know my rights. I attended a free course at a nonprofit. i haven't paid in public school for anything. I do pay privately for services though. I don't know maybe I'm so far removed from how I grew up I don't understand anymore. But I think families need strengthening in these communities. |
It's their culture. |
...and as predicted, racists on this discussion. I was just about to say something as a black person, but will now be quiet. |
Another black PP but this is on point. I completely agree with the first PP. It's crazy that you PP are one of the few white people who responded. It kind of proved her point, though. But you keep on. |
18:06 When you are the poor relations and the rest of your extended family are financially stable, they can mitigate some of the stress of poverty. When your ENTIRE family and neighborhood are in generational poverty, the ability to mitigate the stress of poverty is greatly reduced or nigh impossible. Mothers in my neighborhood shared food, but there were still nights kids went to bed hungry. If our heat was shut off, we would cross the street and share a bed with our cousins. However, it might be that their water was cut off and we might all troop back across to my unheated house to wash our faces before school. There really wasn’t an escape from stress. Not a dependable one. You can’t make long term plans. You focus on a next that is the very near future. It ate away at my childhood. By 8, I could eyeball the flour canister and tell you how many crappy pancakes we were away from skipping a meal. |
How do white people have any standing to tell black people what to do to change the culture of their community? Not interested in hearing some white lecture about blah, blah, blah. |
How about when whites begin to suppress the need to dominate, kill, control, disadvantage, steal, and outcompete everyone on earth. Which is never, so.... yeah. |
Are you male or female? |
But what can realistically be done about this? You can't force couples to stay together. |
You certainly can. Whether you should is a different question. But maybe there's a middle ground between lots of force to stay together and lots of force not to stay together. |
+1000 I do think hip hop culture plays a huge part of the blame. |
Ask yourself who promotes hip hop culture and perpetuates it because they're making BIG MONEY off it. Consider this...U.S. listeners are spending more money on music than ever before: over $20 billion a year. Total music revenues — including from on-demand streams, CD sales, radio play, live events, advertising — have risen to about $43 billion a year. Of that, artists only take home $5 billion, or about 12 percent. So who's taking home the remaining 88 percent? Hint: It ain't the folks with melanin. |
Really? I can think of no better place than an anonymous forum for having honest conversations that one could otherwise risk being attacked for. And why are you reluctant to list the other forums that are more appropriate for having honest conversations?' |
Why? What other website would this topic work better at? |
Oh come on. Where did hip hop culture come from? Who created it? |