| So, OP, what did your DC choose? |
+1 all true |
Wow, you're a nasty piece of work. You make assumptions that are incorrect. Then when it is explained why your assumptions are incorrect, you come back to argue some more and insult the person trying to educate you as to what programs cost. Why does this mean so much to you? . . . Why do you need to be right (even though you clearly made wrong assumptions.)? What do you get out of this type of arguing? And why the need to be so unpleasant to someone trying to help you better understand that many graduate programs are NOT free, and indeed are very very expensive. |
| PLEASE stop quoting every post when you reply to someone. If you are as intelligent as you claim to be, you can edit the quoted text so your post doesn’t take up half a page. |
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Hahaha. Start a troll post about the two schools that get people the most riled up on DCUM and ask for a comparison. Then get some popcorn and enjoy the shitshow
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This post describes my humanities child and my exact concerns and thoughts. That said, DC also has trouble with a pressure cooker environment. Someone here described the U of C that way. Do others agree? I know it can be for a number of majors but is it necessarily stressful for all kids. DC is the hyperintellectual/high verbal ability but disorganized/absent-minded professor type. |
| Meant to have a question mark after "for all kids". |
I think humanities is less stressful than science (fewer hours in class, less likelihood of weekly assignments, more flexibility wrt scheduling because classes typically stand alone vs are offered in sequences and series). So wrt kid, it probably comes down to how much yours cares about grades and whether your DC has a tendency to overschedule/over-commit. My gripe about UChicago is “no time to think” — but if your DC is a fast reader who is not daunted by the STEM requirements in the Core, and who is realistic when choosing courses, then it could be a great choice. |
The problem is folks here are not consistent. If the quarter system is an issue then every school with a quarter system becomes an issue. Stanford, Northwestern, Dartmouth, and many many more. Clearly the quarter system is a red herring. It is used against some schools but I am sure people will crawl thru shit to get their kids into Stanford. So what is it that makes Chicago stand out? Well it is one of the few schools left in the elite list that actually expects you to be a student and actually study. It is definitely not a "Grade deflated school". That is laughable, but it is also not a "Grade inflated school". If you go there and decide to goof off, you are going to make bad grades. If you don't do your assignments or reading or just try to skate by, you are going to get bad grades. If you are going to binge drink (and trust me, you are do that at Chicago, people you tell you, you can't are clueless about how the school has changed in the last 10 years) and go off the rails, your grade is going to suffer. But if you work conscientiously, you will do fine. The problem is, most people nowadays think work conscientiously is "being a grind". This is college people, not a vacation. You are supposed to work and gain knowledge. So it all depends on your philosophy. If you want your kid to get a real education, where teachers don't hand out A's like candy and do justice to the "astronomical tuition" that any private college charges, then Chicago may be right for you. But if you want your kid to just get a branded degree, don't care or want them to actually expend effort in learning the material, then don't send them here. They will be miserable. BTW, I don't think the school gives a rat's ass. They are finding enough of the kids they want and don't care about others. With a 5.9% admit rate, they don't have to compromise on the kids they take. In fact, I think they are pretty good at cherry picking the kids that actually are not skaters. |
I missed this when I gave my opinion about Chicago earlier. For this child ( disorganized, if by that you mean, can't keep schedules, forgets things and assignments, procrastinates a lot, etc etc.) Chicago is a bad choice. Don't send your kid here. I say this as a parent who has a kid here. A kid who can't get organized and is absent minded will have hug problems at the school. You need some decent time management skills to do well here |
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Looking back at your comment re having trouble with a pressure cooker environment, let me add a few more thoughts to my last post (8:23). It may also matter how your kid reacts to environment generally. Kids at UChicago are frequently/visibly/vocally stressed out. Not everyone, not always, not to the exclusion of doing fun things. But the atmosphere is contents under pressure. Which can be contagious — it has been for my DC.
FWIW, I don’t think it would have been for me. I tend to live more in my own head when I’m doing academic stuff. I learned more from books and profs than from classmates. And pleasure motivates me more than pressure. I attended HYP (well, 2/3) and I think DC’s getting a comparable education (in terms of challenge, standards, quality of faculty, and mentorship) at Chicago, but my experience (and DH’s at the same HYP college) was a lot happier and comparatively painless. I don’t think you have to suffer to learn. |
I don’t think that they let people into the school who would be ‘daunted by the STEM requirements in the Core’. You’re either a strong all around student or you’re not a good fit and you won’t be admitted. |
Hyperintellectual kids often don’t need whip-cracking to learn. And, in fact, fear of the lash may get in the way of them doing their best work/learning as much as they can. There’s a difference between kids who would binge-drink and those who would binge-read if they weren’t under constant pressure to perform. And, no, you don’t have to think quarter system is bad everywhere to believe that it’s a real downside to UChicago. |
DC (a STEM major) knows a number of humanities kids who find the required Calc and Chem courses at Chicago daunting. They were misled by their success in similarly-named courses in HS. |
| What are the stem requirements? Calc and what else? |