Oh, I don't know. I think we got pretty lucky. Typically parents are not gaming the system when they seek a diagnosis at age 7. After all the difficulties he had to endure through the years with social issues, bullying, executive functioning issues, etc., we are thrilled to see this improvement and such a great ACT score that got him into a top 10 school!!! |
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My kids are at one of the so-called Big 3s here in DC. Two of my children have ADHD. Neither one of them gets accommodations because they need to learn how to handle it. They instead have an executive functioning coach. They are both in upper school now, and their grades are fine. Not stellar, but fine. One got into her first choice for college (not an Ivy or super-selective school).
My kids have told me that they think about 50% of the students get extra time. They say they don’t want it. But I am now wondering if I have somehow done them a disservice by not getting them accommodations. It’s a strange world. |
And, if you weren't wealthy enough to have had him tested to show slow processing, he would just have struggled with all the other average students in the country. But you were fortunate enough to make sure his issues were identified and accommodated by every teacher, class and text. |
| Getting extra time for slow processing speed would be like giving a dictionary for low vocabulary scores. |
Me again. How can you claim someone games the system when they had a diagnosis at age 7? Were we planning for his college entrance exams at age 7? LOL |
You can only do testing every few years so it isn't gaming the system. They have had documented concerns since 2nd grade. Different than someone coming in middle or high school demanding extra time. |
We are not wealthy. But nice try. |
I have a child who has multiple disabilities (4!) and most certainly is not gaming the system. We have documentation going back to K. Stacks and stacks and stacks of IEPs, testing and letters from specialists. He was denied extended time by the college boards. Now we’re doing yet another round of expensive testing we can’t afford. We were told that since we were already rejected on appeal it’s a long shot but DC cannot possibly complete his AP or SAT in the allotted time so what else can we do. He’s a bright kid and hardworker and I’m angry he’s in the position where he might be limited in college admissions. I know he could take the ACT instead but we don’t dare apply for accommodations without making sure we have dotted every i and crossed every t. I’m sure there are some rich people gaming the system but there are more middle class families like ours that aren’t getting a fair shake. First we had to scrape together money for expensive therapies and intervention because MCPS failed our child. And now this! It’s too much! All I can say is karma will get those people cheating the system. Please don’t start doubting the authenticity of your child’s peers. |
Its not just slow processing speed. That is usually a subcategory or a bigger issue. If you just came in with slow processing, it is different. But it does seem like ADHD and ASD are heavily pushed now for diagnosis. It was for us when our child had a different issue. |
That's how it works in real life. If you ride the Metro, they have information available in braille and other accommodations for blind people, but I don't see any accommodations being made for dyslexics. |
The DSM defines the disorder. How the College board decides whether it warrants accommodation and which ones. It is NOT a rubber stamp. It was for the Singer clients because he bribed people at the ACT/SAT offices. They are in the indictment too. |
Yes you did do a disservice to them. You are a horrible parent. What is wrong with you? |
The key here is that the world exists beyond college. So I would argue by not mowing down obstacles you have actually created a kids who will have learned to keep going even if they're not winning, to work harder than the next guy and advocate for what they want. My guess is at their 20th reunion, they will be far more successful than all those kids with accommodations who never learned to maneuver around and through problems. |
MCPS service are a joke. You have a bunch of bad choices. Either spend the money to fight them and hope you win and get services or not wait and use that money to pay for services. |
I don't think anyone should get extended time for "low processing speed," period. I remember this PP and she has gone on before about how "brilliant" her DS is and how he is such as "strong" test taker ... even knowing that, she STILL finagled the extra time for the ACT. Totally gaming the system. What she had was a bright, quirky kid who seemed a little different as a younger kid, and she decided that she could not stand even the slightest difficulty for him. |