My husband became hot

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Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Agree also but 90% of men and 98% of women aren't hot at that age. That 8% is a huge gap.

Not to mention, that man is going to attract women in their 30's and 40's. That woman, not so much.

You know, some 50 year old women do attract men in their 40s, even if people find that surprising.

Very few.

Where are you getting this from? “Very few?” Maybe they’re not turning heads in the way that they were but they certainly can still be attractive to men; I’ve got friends in that age range who have partnered off without difficulty.

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Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Agree also but 90% of men and 98% of women aren't hot at that age. That 8% is a huge gap.

Not to mention, that man is going to attract women in their 30's and 40's. That woman, not so much.

You know, some 50 year old women do attract men in their 40s, even if people find that surprising.

You are embarrassing yourself and others.

Well, you are demonstrating that you have a chip on your shoulder, and bitterness in your heart; otherwise you would keep such a nasty thought to yourself. You’re trying to be hurtful.

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Anonymous wrote:He was a handsome guy when we met but now 20 some years later he’s really handsome, in shape, smart, kind , and a very high earner. The years haven’t been as kind to me. Difficult Kids, depression, weight gain. I am finding myself for really the first time feeling insecure as I notice women noticing my husband all the time and some actively flirting. Not to sound strange, but the dynamic used to be flippped when we were younger. Not sure how to deal with it. I guess I realize he has an awful lot of temptation and he travels a lot.

Oh, poor baby! The tables have turned!

Better not stop with the BJs. Hope all those years of sexual entitlement were worth it.

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Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Agree also but 90% of men and 98% of women aren't hot at that age. That 8% is a huge gap.

Not to mention, that man is going to attract women in their 30's and 40's. That woman, not so much.

You know, some 50 year old women do attract men in their 40s, even if people find that surprising.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day

It is a biological fact that men age like fine wine while women age like milk. Our wallets get fatter as we age, which is how you ultimately judge our sexual proclivity, while yours, which is your physical beauty, only gets worse as you age. It's a biological fact, argue all you want.

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Anonymous wrote:He was a handsome guy when we met but now 20 some years later he’s really handsome, in shape, smart, kind , and a very high earner. The years haven’t been as kind to me. Difficult Kids, depression, weight gain. I am finding myself for really the first time feeling insecure as I notice women noticing my husband all the time and some actively flirting. Not to sound strange, but the dynamic used to be flippped when we were younger. Not sure how to deal with it. I guess I realize he has an awful lot of temptation and he travels a lot.

Oh, poor baby! The tables have turned!

Better not stop with the BJs. Hope all those years of sexual entitlement were worth it.

You seem to have a healthy view of human relationships.

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My DH is in his early 60's and is very fit with a full head of silver hair. I know women think he is hot but I still enjoy sex enough that he has no reason to wander.

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You seem to have a healthy view of human relationships.

I don't feel sorry for women who publicly whine about the tables turning.

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Anonymous wrote:The biology of it is that time isn’t kind to women as far as appearance. We can look good for our age but it’s hard to be ‘hot’ in the conventional sense and menopausal. It sucks. Your only chance is to be kind, stay healthy, get regular exercise and live your life.

Agree but 90 percent of 50 yo men are definitely not hot either !

Agree also but 90% of men and 98% of women aren't hot at that age. That 8% is a huge gap.

Not to mention, that man is going to attract women in their 30's and 40's. That woman, not so much.

You know, some 50 year old women do attract men in their 40s, even if people find that surprising.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day

It is a biological fact that men age like fine wine while women age like milk. Our wallets get fatter as we age, which is how you ultimately judge our sexual proclivity, while yours, which is your physical beauty, only gets worse as you age. It's a biological fact, argue all you want.

Oh you again! You're always saying this. Ok sad old man!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Guy here: I’d never describe myself as hot, but I’m in my late 40’s and always kept in shape. I’m the most muscular I’ve ever been (had to go up a shirt size and quit wearing some tighter shirts) from lifting weights using a trainer for the last year+. I’ve also got all of my hair and dress on trend.

I work at a company that instituted a college hire program a few years back and so my office has several post college men/women running around. I do get attention occasionally and enjoy seeing the attractive girls but I’d never do anything to damage my relationship with my wife.

Also, my wife stays pretty fit too and we have a lot of fun together.

No straight man uses the phrase “on trend.”