Not being aware of u of Miami football makes you smart - so UVa it is. |
| I would not let the possibility of helping pay for grad school be a factor in this decision. Way too speculative. I do not understand parents’ concern on this forum about paying for their kids’ grad school. Sure, if you can afford to help, help a little. But there seems to be so much emphasis on parents trying to save on undergrad so they can help pay for grad. In my book paying for undergrad is a parent’s responsibility; paying for grad school is my kids’ responsibility. Time to grow upand have some skin in the game. A certain amount of loans are fine. |
The UVA v UM choice aside, to say you’ve never heard of one of these schools is ridiculous. At least it’s not something to brag about or to take as something worth weighing in your UVA/UM decision. All it proves is that one pp’s ignorance. |
| OP, I anticipate being in a similar situation to you for my kids. If you look at admitted student profiles across schools in the top 60, say, they are not that different. In fact, I’m shocked at how high they are, with average unweighted GPA’s for the middle 50% at 3.7 to 3.9 and SATs in the 1250-1450 range. But the fact is, those numbers are so high because of grade and test inflation. There really is a difference in how a class is run based on how smart the kids taking the class are, so if I thought smarter kids were at UVA compared to Miami (on the whole of course, not as to a particular kid), and my kid didn’t get a full ride to Miami, that’s worth the extra money to me. |
I'm European, have lived in DC for 20 years and had heard more about UM than UVA. I thought I already posted that my DH and his 4 brothers all went to UM. My good friend also went there for grad school. I had hear of UM before I met my DH. It's all over tv and pretty high in rankings. I got to be death and/or blind not to have heard of UM. I've heard UM so many times that I even got to find out there is MU in Oxford, OH - not to confuse the 2. And since when do we Europeans brag about not knowing or having heard of something. Not a good thing. You can say you have heard, but don't know much about it. All 5 brothers are employed in IT and engineering. |
+1 I am one of the Europeans above and I have also heard of schools such as university of Delaware, Rutgers, university of Vermont etc. most people at top schools have heard of all these schools. It has nothing to do with football - just he fact that these are big schools and eventually you come across a professor or appear or a class material that has some connection to them. |
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I haven't read all the posts, but I believe you have to apply to UVa's Comm school after Sophomore year and it is competitive. So, there might not be a guarantee of an Econ major there.
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Or, schools like UM work very hard to attract those very top students. How they do this? By offering top students generous merit $$ so they choose UM over a higher ranked college, which raises UM's ranking. It's working. |
| Really now? I've got no horse in this race as a UMD grad, but in terms of general quality and perceived quality, there is no comparison between the 2 schools. Since OP already said she can afford either. I say let the kid follow his dream and attend UVA. |
. . . . speaking from my very own perspective as a UMD grad, of course. |
Go look at College Confidential and read all the posts from international students who did not recently get in on Early Action or were deferred. Look at their stats. You clearly don't know what has been happening in the college and university world in the last ten years. OP, go with UVA if your son thinks he wants to go to grad school. he won't get into a good grad program from Miami. |
I haven't read the entire thread, so forgive me if I missed something, but... Going to Miami for $42K, per year, is hardly a bargain. All the Canes have done is jack up the sticker price of their tuition to make it look like they are giving you a "huge" scholarship. It's odd how otherwise intelligent people don't see through this blatant gimmick. Miami is notorious for being the place for rich kids who didn't get into an elite school but are too proud to go to XYZ State University, in-state, for a fraction of the cost. If you are OOS, why is 65K *per year* for UVA even a consideration? Why not just go to a local decent state school for peanuts? It's astonishing to me that US News rankings so enthrall otherwise intelligent people that they are willing to spend $200,000+ when they could go to a good, but less prestigious, school for free. |
| ^^ a UMD poster I’m guessing. |
PP, here. I wouldn't pay $65K (or $42K) for UMD, either. |
I had friends that found their merit aid was reduced and loan amounts increased their 3rd year of American University (this was years ago). |