Childish men are to blame for women having kids late in life

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I agree that a man from an upper-middle class (UMC) background, with a college degree, is unlikely to marry a poor women who didn't graduate from high school. But he might marry a women from a working/lower middle class (LMC) woman who didn't finish college. On the other hand, women from UMC backgrounds strongly prefer other men from UMC backgrounds (and up).


Men typically like demure women of all backgrounds so don't fool yourself. My cousin married a waitress. Married 25 years, he graduated from George town. Has his own law firm. Brother married a woman whose degree was in plants. She doesn't work, watches the horses and chickens all day. He owns over 200 acres in Santa Ynez. Other rich cousins married demure women some with degrees some without. All still happily married.
Many of you need to get out of DC, it's a big world where many do not share your cookie cutter views...thankfully.


Demure is important but if a woman is from a lower middle class background, it usually shows.

That doesn't bother a man of your brother's caliber--Georgetown, started his own practice. If you look at the wives of partners of T5 law firms or senior guys at top asset management firms, many come from wealthy or at least UMC backgrounds. Men like that will date LMC women, but they usually get dropped before things get really serious.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You have the education.
You have the career.
You have the money for a home and childcare.
You have IVF at your disposal.

You don't need men.





This is what I'm seeing more and more. Women want the family without a man. If they truly want kids it's going to be with some random guy, a bf, or the sperm bank. No custody battles, no exes bothering them, no ex in laws and all the other horrible dilemmas people get themselves into.

I don't see anything wrong with it. It's all about personal choices.


As a young woman, this is exactly what I want. With the way custody has been moving, it's an insane risk to both yourself and your kids to marry a man, or even have him on the birth certificate. Even in cases of extreme abuse, it is usually assumed the woman has caused "parental alienation syndrome" (with her magical mind control powers, presumably) and custody is split 50-50. Almost all abuse is carried out by men. So if you happen to make the mistake of marrying a guy who later turns out to be a child abuser, in whatever form, you are screwed, and, more importantly, your kids are screwed.

Men today are just uneccessary and more of a burden than anything else, with their lack of willingness to do equal housework and childcare. I know many women my own age who feel the same way.

It will be interesting to see what happens in the future- whether men will start putting in more effort in order to secure their genetic future. Too late for this generation, though.


Do the world a favor and do not breed...troll.
Anonymous
I told my daughters to definitely not feel pressured to get married ever. or to have kids.
It might be best to only pick one if the above.
Anonymous
It will be interesting to see what happens in the future- whether men will start putting in more effort in order to secure their genetic future.


It's on my todo list.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I told my daughters to definitely not feel pressured to get married ever. or to have kids.
It might be best to only pick one if the above.


Yep. Men are deadweight and depreciating assets
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:



Just promise us all that you'll abort if you find your fetus is a male.

Because women like you are incapable of raising male children. So just don't do it. Terminate instead, and start over, hoping for a female.

Sorry, no can do. Get ready for another "feminized" man.



So you'll raise a feminized male child and produce an adult male that no heterosexual female will want to partner with? Great strategy.

Your hatred of men really knows no bounds, does it? You despise males so much you'll punish your own son simply for existing. My God, you really ARE damaged goods, aren't you Lilith?

Well, here's hoping you're infertile, or miscarry. That way you don't get to torture some poor creature for the rest of your life.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:



Just promise us all that you'll abort if you find your fetus is a male.

Because women like you are incapable of raising male children. So just don't do it. Terminate instead, and start over, hoping for a female.

Sorry, no can do. Get ready for another "feminized" man.



So you'll raise a feminized male child and produce an adult male that no heterosexual female will want to partner with? Great strategy.

Your hatred of men really knows no bounds, does it? You despise males so much you'll punish your own son simply for existing. My God, you really ARE damaged goods, aren't you Lilith?

Well, here's hoping you're infertile, or miscarry. That way you don't get to torture some poor creature for the rest of your life.


Doubtful, my whole family is very fertile.

Thanks for comparing me to Lilith- the ultimate shero.

Get ready for a changing world, Bucko. Lots of us millenial feminists out here and some of us are gonna have kids. And raise sons that respect women and realize what they need to bring to the table to be with a women.

Sorry, dino. The days of misogyny being shrugged off are OVER.

Anonymous
It's not they're children, it's they see there is nothing to gain from kids, marriage, mortgage. Let's look at it from a guy angle.

You used to get married and have sex. Not anymore. Women will have sex without commitment and it's not hard to find them. Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free and all that jazz.

Once kids come into the picture, sex decreases. The husband takes a backseat in the marriage to the kids, cleaning the house, kids soccer, gymnastics, doing laundry, music lessons and so on. When you're dating, you can concentrate on each other.

Divorce is a emotional and financial disaster for men. Most men aren't dumb. We see the odds. Odds are the following:
You will most likely end up divorced - stays back that up

You'll have your kids ripped away from you, as custody always goes to the mom except in the most severe cases

You'll lose half your assets to include retirement in divorce. So you're whole blueprint for your life is ruined. Even if she marries up, you're still on the hook

Women cheat almost as much as men. Newsweek had an article that showed infidelity rates were almost equal.



Too boot, we've raised a generation of special people who need to be coddled. So there's no rush to commit to relationships in the current ME generation.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I told my daughters to definitely not feel pressured to get married ever. or to have kids.
It might be best to only pick one if the above.


Yep. Men are deadweight and depreciating assets

Hopefully you all do not have any sons. What a horrible thing to say about men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I told my daughters to definitely not feel pressured to get married ever. or to have kids.
It might be best to only pick one if the above.


Yep. Men are deadweight and depreciating assets

Hopefully you all do not have any sons. What a horrible thing to say about men.


Men are actually appreciating assists as their wife come and ability to provide increases as they age as well. Men age like wine, women age like milk.
Anonymous
This thread just reinforces my opinion about American women. I will definitely be steering my son toward SE Asia or Colombia when he gets older!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This thread just reinforces my opinion about American women. I will definitely be steering my son toward SE Asia or Colombia when he gets older!


+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:



Just promise us all that you'll abort if you find your fetus is a male.

Because women like you are incapable of raising male children. So just don't do it. Terminate instead, and start over, hoping for a female.

Sorry, no can do. Get ready for another "feminized" man.



So you'll raise a feminized male child and produce an adult male that no heterosexual female will want to partner with? Great strategy.

Your hatred of men really knows no bounds, does it? You despise males so much you'll punish your own son simply for existing. My God, you really ARE damaged goods, aren't you Lilith?

Well, here's hoping you're infertile, or miscarry. That way you don't get to torture some poor creature for the rest of your life.


Doubtful, my whole family is very fertile.

Thanks for comparing me to Lilith- the ultimate shero.

Get ready for a changing world, Bucko. Lots of us millenial feminists out here and some of us are gonna have kids. And raise sons that respect women and realize what they need to bring to the table to be with a women.

Sorry, dino. The days of misogyny being shrugged off are OVER.




Things aren't going to work out the way you think they will.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This thread just reinforces my opinion about American women. I will definitely be steering my son toward SE Asia or Colombia when he gets older!


+1


Heh - i'm not white and I hate the already massive egos that pretty white women have but SE Asian women are not attractive AND they are just looking for a visa/sugar daddy.

I love Colombian women BUT it isn't like they have good values. Colombia is a leader in the world when it comes to illegitimacy rates.

http://colombiareports.com/84-colombias-children-born-wedlock/

that is nasty and reflects very poorly on the values of that country.

I think people have this conception that south american women have better morals because of family/catholicism but that's not true anymore. They're ratchet these days!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This thread just reinforces my opinion about American women. I will definitely be steering my son toward SE Asia or Colombia when he gets older!


ah, how machismo! how can I pamper your today sir?!
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