Any success stories come out of affairs?

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, that's really rich, the people trying to minimize the impact of affairs on children. Sure, adult children should realize their parents are human. But an affair, divorce, and quick remarriage is devastating for a child. I totally understand why that might be unforgiveable.

You know what else is unhealthy? Being that angry for 20 years. Obviously having an affair is not ideal for anyone, but the PPs who remain furious with their parents decades later should probably seek therapy for these issues so they can move on themselves.

Fuck off. It is never NOT going to be true that my father abused my mother and abandoned his children. He is not even sorry about it. He behaved unforgivably and does not want, or deserve, forgiveness.

"Don't worry, if you have an affair someday your kids will get therapy and move on with their lives" is an absolutely idiotic and immoral philosophy.

+1. It's not like the passage of time magically transforms a cheating parent into an honest and trustworthy one. Feel free to treat people badly, because they'll spend thousands of dollars on therapy and that will make it all just fine.

It's not like the cheating magically transforms a great parent into a shitty one, either.

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I call troll. I think pp who claims to be angry at her father is a bitter wife.
Nice try.