I stand by what I said. I don’t want my child to learn Spanish from your husband at all—I don’t care how good his college-learned Spanish is now. And I don’t want my child to learn from you either since your Spanish is, admittedly, not as good as your husband’s Spanish. I would PREFER for MY child to (ideally) attend school with the children (occupying those Spanish-dominant seats) of two native Spanish speaking parents who speak the language well. That is not what my child is currently receiving at Oyster, but that is my preference. I don’t know if my ideal can/will be achieved, but there is room for improvement and it’s within the principal’s grasp if she is truly willing to improve the school. |
| ^^ good thing you don't get to chose! My kid is in as Spanish dom. So there! To double piss you off, my neighbor's American kid who learned Spanish in preschool is in as Span. Dom. too. Both kids speak flawless Spanish (way better than me). Don't hate 'em, congratulate 'em! |
Wow. The one thing your child will definitely learn at O-A is that labels like "language dominance" are inaccurate, at best, and easily twisted into disrespect and prejudice. You can't, nor should you, judge a 6 year old by their last name, skin tone, their accent, or what you think you heard them say. Immigrants in an elevator? Give me a break. Did you check their papers? If you want native-level, fully educated, bi-literate and bilingual parents to teach (as opposed to teachers) perfect Spanish to your child, then move to Spain-better yet Colombia- and go to a private school. In the meantime, get over yourself and find another school. You will never be able to appreciate the families at O-A, or most bilingual schools, with that attitude. Coño, que pesada. |
Thanks--you've just made my point! That's why Oyster won't be allowed to move. There is a language balance issue there b/c the principal won't enforce the rules. There will be a language balance issue at any school where she's principal: neighborhood DCPS, charter, citywide magnet...it doesnt matter. Different location, same problem. Btw, I'm not pissed at all. You don't have many good options, so do whatever you can to try to get by/over. It's the principal's job to stop dishonest parents like your neighbor. I get to walk my kid to school from my nice house in my nice neighborhood (I can do smug very well, thank you), and I didn't have to lie to get in. Plus, my kid's Spanish is perfect with a native accent. No worries here, life is good. Don't hate me, congratulate me! |
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Those are good points, but in fact the school already has a lot of control over admissions. The problem is that it is choosing to use that control AGAINST Spanish-speakers. From what I can see in the survey in their website, 37% of all kids are out-boundary English-dom. Since very few out-boundary English-dom kids get to O-A via the lottery, those must be kids who started as in-boundary but then moved out, AND their siblings. Can someone please explain to me why, if the school has a huge waitlist of out-boundary Spanish-dom kids, why it is giving so many spots to out-boundary English-dom kids? Does the fact that my older English-dom brother lived in Woodley Park 5 years ago give me the right to enter O-A next year in K, despite living in Bethesda now and only speaking English? Why can I secure a spot while my Spanish-dom neighbor can't even dream of it? It seems to me that O-A leaders care much more about friends and siblings than about Spanish. |
Racist much? I think karma hates you, but we'll have to wait to see about that, won't we? |
THIS. |
+1 |
Has anyone also heard that Janney is thinking about relocating to Georgetown, and Wilson to Columbia Heights? (They haven't - just a thought-experiment so we can have as much fun as Oyster administrators seem to be having) |
Smug, yes - but why? Your choice of words is so very lower middle-class. I'm an NP, reading the thread for amusement. Your post made me chuckle. |
This is very interesting to me, because we come from a mixed family (parents both fluent in Spanish, only one native speaker), but deliberately only had Spanish speaking (no English) nannies because we wanted our kids to be bilingual. So Spanish was NOT the principal language spoken in our home when we were home, although certainly our child had "age-appropriate and linguistic development in Spanish". What made me so happy was that Early Intervention (child was a preemie, no lasting problems) identified dc2 as Spanish dominant. Once my kids started their English only schools, they continued to understand Spanish but would answer in English unless corrected. Including to the nanny and me (and we both continued to speak to them exclusively in Spanish). Then they started to forget it once they moved on to K and full time school and we let go of our child care. Had they started Oyster early that would not have happened, just not an option for us. But my oldest dc, who has now completed two years of Latin first at Washington Latin and then Basis this year, will be taking Spanish next year as a non-native speaker (at BASIS they also have a track for native speakers who don't know how to read and write Spanish or Chinese, which was the case with my dh who grew up partially in his native Latin American country, with Spanish as a first language, but you would never know it now.) And even after two years of Latin, dc1's Spanish has come back and is more grammatically correct. We have high hopes because it was basically the first language, and the only one spoken by dcs caretakers until they all went to preschool. I really admire you all who had the wherewithal to get your kids into bilingual schools. We did what we could, and the studies show that if a child speaks any two languages before a certain age (6?7?) it alters the neurotransmitters in their brains so that they can pick up the old native language they lost, or that one and another easier than monolingual children. My dc did really well in Mandarin when it was offered as an extracurric at her DCPS, and Latin (the language) has been a breeze, I think partially because of her prior Spanish. So I just wanted to say that definitions aren't everything. Had we started at Oyster, we would not have qualified technically as Spanish dominant, even though that is what our kids were at that time. I know nothing about the principal and her possible ulterior motives or whatever. I just wanted to say that technical definitions are not everything. |
Why do you think that your children would not have qualified as Spanish dominant? I don't think that's the case.. Btw, if both you and your husband are fluent, why didn't you speak Spanish to your children? No judgement, I'm just curious since you both went through the extra effort of hiring only Spanish speaking caregivers. |
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Oyster uses Spanish education as an excuse for why the other subject areas are mediocre and watered down. I would love for Spanish to no longer serve as the proxy for mediocre.
If the leadership can't right this ship in this location, I shudder to think what it would be like in a new one. |
+1. |