The policy was set up by FIL as a vehicle for transferring money to his kids, basically. The understanding is that we are free to use the money whenever and however we want - but as soon as we touch it, we own the premiums as well. FIL has similar insurance polices on all his kids and grandkids. |
| Sorry, I don't think I was clear - we are not paying anything toward that crazy policy. FIL set it up ages ago (before I even met DH) and pays everything. It's not like we are paying the monthly premiums or anything. I am sole beneficiary in event of his death. |
I am required to keep this much company stock - condition of employment. Why am I exposed to inflation if I have growth stocks? Only $70K of our tax advantaged investments is in a traditional IRA. |
Hi OP thanks. This is good advice, that I hope we will take (it is what we have been talking about but we are wusses!). |
NP. I am confused, sorry - if this poster doesn't have the DP, how are they buying? Asking bc I am in a similar situation where everything is okay except for not having the savings for a DP. Does a multi unit have different DP requiermetns or somethign? Sorry, I am clueless |
+1 8% return cash on cash is an impossibility in the DC & suburb areas. Our rentals are financed with 25% down and 15 yrs mortgages and pays about 2% cash on cash. This is not an area where you can buy a property for 60k and rent it out for 1600/month |
Most banks require 25% down on investment loans, and getting 1% on the purchase price in the DC area is a fantasy...unless you're talking about slum/ghetto areas.. |
23:48 Back. We are hoping to stay close in to the city or a close suburb. Current property is 1600 sq ft, 3 bdrm 2 bath about a mile from the center of the city in NW (row house). We have about 75k in short term savings, 10k in college savings, about 275k in retirement accounts. We just started making money in the last few years and every year have had a major expense (wedding, down payment on home, fertility treatments). We are 37 and 40. Thank you for doing this. |
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OP,if you're still giving advice -
250K HHI Mortgage is $2500k/mo @4.25%; currently owe $389k, value around $500k Combined retirement accounts are just shy of $500k - we max out 401ks and trad. IRAs College accts for 2 kids are $30k - we contribute about $800 month Cash in savings acct $100k Student loans of about $30K We are trying to save up for potential addition to the house. Or I may take a lower paying job, which could be as much as a $70k decrease in salary. We will likely need a new car sometime in the next five years, but I figure we have that covered and will pay cash. I feel like we should have more in savings, or should be doing something else with some of the savings. |
That's good. If your FIL is at all amenable to a rational conversation, could you approach him to stop funding the policies and gift you the premiums instead? You could purchase term insurance and invest the remainder. If he won't, he wont - it's his money - but if his intention is to pass it along to his son and grandkids there are much, much better ways to go about it. |
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OP, are you still around? I posted this early on the 2nd page but afraid you may have missed mine, as it seems you've responded to some posted later. I realize we're probably a boring case: DH and I are careful savers and young, but neither of us have financial savvy (and our families are terrible at this -- so no advice from them). We also don't have a huge HHI and have no chance of family money, so we need to be smart.
I would truly be interested in what you recommend to me. Thank you again.
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| Not OP, but $500K in retirement savings at age 33 is remarkable. One of you is a stock wizard, or something. Don't think you need any advice except keep up the good work. |
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OP, thank you for doing this.
Age: --30 and mid-30s. Would like no more than 2 kids, two probably ideal - recently started trying. Current income: --One spouse FT salaried employee, $100k. --One spouse owns a business that has never been in the negative, but doesn't bring in much (we budget off the salaried income only), even though its been promising. Both spouses agree it is time to apply for salaried jobs. Spouse with business formerly made more than other spouse but in an industry hit hard by the recession. Assets: --Home worth about $500k, owe $253k. (recently refinanced to 15 year at 2.875%) --Only other debt: $16k federal student loan (5.3%, interest tax deductible in current income range) --Own two older cars, neither of us drive much however. --$296k in 401(k), IRA, SEP-IRA --$8k in ROTH IRA --$2k in another investment account --$16,500 in 529 college savings for future child(ren) --$57k in cash --Some other assets that could be sold if we had to --Business and its assets including its cash From sitting down and doing this rundown, I know I need to (and I WILL): --Purchase index funds with some cash we have sitting in IRAs. --Not have so much personal cash earning low, low interest. --Contribute to ROTH IRA for 2012 (will be eligible), in addition to 529 contribution. What would you recommend? We live frugally and are happy. Other factors include that salaried employer recently started offering ROTH 401(k) option. We know kids are expensive but thankfully family has offered childcare at no cost to us. |
Hi OP, just wanted to bump this up in case you have time to look at it. Would love to know your thoughts, especially about the allocation of the inheritance. Also, event though we just bought this house, we may possibly try to sell in a year. A job transfer may be on the horizon. We are worried about the loss we would entail. Our income has been at this rate for about 2 years, before it was about $38,000, so we're kinda just learning how to properly handle these finances. |