| Bottom line - if struggling to decide, all things being equal, then fine to take $$ into account. UVA for the win. |
| We offered the tuition difference as a gift to our DC. We will make it available to them after graduation. DC is still deciding, but leaning towards Michigan. UVA is still in the running though. Maybe Days on the Lawn will be amazing and DC will stay in Virginia! |
I guess my kid, UM alum who’s working DC, stole a job from a UVA grad! 😂 But seriously, why is logic sooo lacking in the college thread?! |
Oh, no, not another Unnecessary Capitalizer! |
I'm a west coast person with no dog in this fight, but I would feel this way as well. The college experience for me involved going away from my home state and experiencing a different place with different people and growing from all of the challenges (including plane travel). People here seem to think D.C. is far; well, I traveled from L.A. to New Hampshire to go to college and met lots of people from all over the world who traveled way farther (e.g., Hawaii, Singapore, India, etc.) |
Because college decisions are emotional decisions and people look for logical reasons and rationalizations to support what they want to do. I think the money difference is compelling. I would make my decision based on that. |
| Personally I would pick Michigan. Ann Arbor is great. School is big but I feel like has more spirit. |
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All other things aside, fit.
Where does your kid want to go. |
Was, the, sophomore, the, mistake,? |
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we are going sat-monday for admitted students day, engineering, just got tix, 351 per person, direct flight. hotel 220 per room by UM
will tour gtech soon as well, MIT kids dream-will no pi day...i personally am team UM but everyone in engineering thinks dumb to say no to gtech |
| Since the student applied out of state, likely they wanted that choice. Probably to get away from the mentality of, "why would you go out of state?" UVA thinking they are all-that -- it's pretty obnoxious. |
I almost spit out my drink when I read that. OP - It's super easy to get to Detriot.
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| Such a fun decision to make! Congratulations and good luck. |
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Culture is probably quite different. Some VA kids want to get out of the state, don't want to run into classmaes from HS. Others are fine with that or even want to know other kids. Which is it for yours?
UVA is in a bad place right now with all the attacks from Trump/Youngkin. And I say that as a UVA grad myself. |
This. Mine chose Michigan over UVA for so many of the reasons listed here and is so very happy. It doesn't matter what anyone on here says, though, your kid has to make this decision themselves. DCUM should not come into play. |