Interesting re: your sisters. I’m a teacher and I certainly deal with this issue. My school starts earlier than my kids’ school and I’m required to stay after, so I need childcare on both ends of the school day. And I work a second job during the summer, so I still need to rely on camp openings. Many teachers are in the same position I am when it comes to childcare. |
No it's MCPS- sorry it's actually 9:25, I just rounded up. But I agree it's really late. |
What time does your school day end? My kid is in DCPS, school goes from 8:35 - 3:25 each day. Can drop off as early as 8:15am without triggering aftercare. If your kid ends the day at 3:25pm, they are getting ~1 hour LESS instruction than my kid each day. That is huge. |
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My kids catholic school starts at 8a and it’s a huge relief to be able to drop her then. Plus there’s beforecare
If you need it. |
3:50 |
Drive to the closest bus stop. My son once took a camp bus that did not really get him any closer to our house but took 30 mins that allowed me to finish my work day. I met him at the last stop |
| It seems a little late to be learning this harsh reality, but when both parents have jobs with long hours and can’t work remotely, childcare is always an issue. That’s why many parents have completely reoriented their jobs around kids. This isn’t school’s fault. |
How does it hurt? If it’s just you feeling guilty, then don’t feel bad. You are a parent first before you are an employee. This is your circumstance now. Some one else has a different circumstance. Working parents are a fact of life. And this timing will change at some point for you. |
In FCPS, half the ES schools start at 8:30 and the other half start at 9:30, for bus reasons. This was a factor when we chose where to live, because 9:30 is untenable. To your snarky comment, private schools in my area start at 8:00, or earlier for certain specials, because parent convenience carries more weight. |
| Our DCPS beforecare has more kids in it since Federal RTO. |
DP but also in FCPS and it was a total brain fail on my part to not consider ES start times when we bought a house, but we didn't even have kids at that point and I was just looking for a solid ES. Totally overlooked the split start times. Anyway, I have no problem dropping off my kids at beforecare, doing that allows me to get home for dinner. |
They can also rezone and change start times. |
What does your daughter do at home during this time now? Can't she bring a book or something else to do? Participation in beforecare at our school has ticked back up again but before RTO it was pretty light for a while. But we sent DS anyway because we both need to work 8.5 hrs so if I didn't get in until 10am I'd be at work until 6:30pm and that just doesn't work for our family. We prioritized the evening over the morning. Are you part-time or also having to make this tradeoff? |
Buses are expensive, our accounting is very strict that people must take their assigned bus stop only. I remember when my kids were younger and we lived elsewhere. They once were almost refused to be allowed on the bus even though it was their stop. |
| *county is strict |