Are divorced men solely looking for sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.

All relationships are transactional.

No.

Good relationships are romantic, caring, and emotionally supportive. Each person wants to give more than they receive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Yes, all men are just pigs incapable in every way. They are idiots would never haplessly somehow marry unsatisfied, nagging shrews who criticize and control their husbands, while they weaponize intimacy. It just doesn’t happen. Men bad.

All men are evil? Women have evil in their blood. That’s why God created women to bleed out once a month to get ride of the evil until the next month! 😁

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.

All relationships are transactional.

No.

Good relationships are romantic, caring, and emotionally supportive. Each person wants to give more than they receive.

Clearly written by a woman. Men can be those things if they lead to sex. In no case do they want to give more than they receive though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

Some just want sex. Some want companionship. Some want a nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

[Anonymous]

Love it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

This poster fits the profile of a psychopath to a T.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

Having no kids or issues in the house anymore also makes it a wonderful relationship. Not so much disrespectful dumping on wifey.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

Having no kids or issues in the house anymore also makes it a wonderful relationship. Not so much disrespectful dumping on wifey.

I'm PP and have no idea what you're talking about. I never said anything about our kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

The question is why this particular species of chauvinism is tolerated on this forum. I suppose it drives traffic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

Having no kids or issues in the house anymore also makes it a wonderful relationship. Not so much disrespectful dumping on wifey.

I'm PP and have no idea what you're talking about. I never said anything about our kids.

That’s because they’re grown and out of the house, easy peasy!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

Having no kids or issues in the house anymore also makes it a wonderful relationship. Not so much disrespectful dumping on wifey.

I'm PP and have no idea what you're talking about. I never said anything about our kids.

That’s because they’re grown and out of the house, easy peasy!

Are you speaking on my behalf? Why are you pretending to know anything about me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

Zero mention of kids in the house or blended family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Wow, I doubt we will get a more man hating post than that on DCUM in all of 2026.

I'm a divorced woman and I agree. The PP you quoted is a horrible person. But the problem is clearly her.

OP, I met an absolutely wonderful man after my divorce. He was also divorced. We both have our baggage but we work every day not to let it affect OUR relationship.

Zero mention of kids in the house or blended family.

Correct....because it's completely irrelevant to the question asked. Anything else?