Are divorced men solely looking for sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of them. I've dated a few that were freshly divorced, who had a dead bedroom for a couple years pre-divorce. They were super excited to have regular sex again. In my case they were also looking to date me exclusively, which was good, but they weren't emotionally ready for it.

So it depends on the guy. But in general, yes. It's usually not ALL they want, but yes.

Yes, once women get what they want, they decide that sex isn’t a priority.

My dude, if you find that the women you date start to deprioritize sex, it's because the sex isn't any good. It is absolutely a priority to most women if it fulfills them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They don’t know what they’re looking for but will take the sex.

Maybe once they want to play house with a mommy figure wife, they’ll look for that.

[Anonymous]

Male here - I’ve often been surprised by how quickly women want sex, sometimes on the first date. Most of the time I beg off as the date has been a disappointment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Yes, all men are just pigs incapable in every way. They are idiots would never haplessly somehow marry unsatisfied, nagging shrews who criticize and control their husbands, while they weaponize intimacy. It just doesn’t happen. Men bad.

[Anonymous]

Many men who divorce were sex-starved in their marriage, so it would stand to reason that’s a huge part of their rebound.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Yes, all men are just pigs incapable in every way. They are idiots would never haplessly somehow marry unsatisfied, nagging shrews who criticize and control their husbands, while they weaponize intimacy. It just doesn’t happen. Men bad.

Guess whose fault it is if you're stupid enough to marry a "nagging shrew"? Dumb ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of them. I've dated a few that were freshly divorced, who had a dead bedroom for a couple years pre-divorce. They were super excited to have regular sex again. In my case they were also looking to date me exclusively, which was good, but they weren't emotionally ready for it.

So it depends on the guy. But in general, yes. It's usually not ALL they want, but yes.

Yes, once women get what they want, they decide that sex isn’t a priority.

Sex with you isn't a priority for the women you date because you suck in bed. DUH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Yes, all men are just pigs incapable in every way. They are idiots would never haplessly somehow marry unsatisfied, nagging shrews who criticize and control their husbands, while they weaponize intimacy. It just doesn’t happen. Men bad.

Guess whose fault it is if you're stupid enough to marry a "nagging shrew"? Dumb ass.

Because nagging shrews can hide it for years. They are very clever!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Male here - I’ve often been surprised by how quickly women want sex, sometimes on the first date. Most of the time I beg off as the date has been a disappointment.

same is my experience. Really successful and good looking women and so easy for sex on first date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heck, I am a married woman and often feel like sometimes my husband is only looking for sex.

+1
Guess what % of the my husband opens his mouth to speak the topic is about the family versus him?

0% about anyone in the family’s needs

100% about himself (I need this or that or have to work or want this or that)

it goes both ways. What are you looking for - work hard in his job so that you can get what you want at home? If you can't understand how marriage works then no point in being in one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Goodness no.

When there is a divorce, the husband is usually remarried before the wife. Most men desperately need affection, ego-boosting, and someone to do the laundry and maintain social ties even more than they need sex.

This. Don't forget cooking and grocery shopping as well.

Real talk, lol.

Soooo many men out there divorced and regretting everything that got them that way ... because they are living on Uber Eats and frozen pizza. Sadly remembering the days of a family dinner of pot roast or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.

All relationships are transactional.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Its a turn off to me that even if I were to find someone who could be q companion and a good sex partner, I have to be ok wirh him possibly having been with hundreds of women before. That is also a turn off to me. In my mind that person is like a prostitute being with people they barely know.

What on earth?

This is a you problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.

Yes, all men are just pigs incapable in every way. They are idiots would never haplessly somehow marry unsatisfied, nagging shrews who criticize and control their husbands, while they weaponize intimacy. It just doesn’t happen. Men bad.

Guess whose fault it is if you're stupid enough to marry a "nagging shrew"? Dumb ass.

Because nagging shrews can hide it for years. They are very clever!

Wut they even be nagging about?!

Your pile of dirty clothes, or your dirty mugs everywhere, or shaving whiskers clogging the sink, or you forgetting to do things??

Wut there to nag about?

Best way to shut up a nag is Fing take care of things in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Heck, I am a married woman and often feel like sometimes my husband is only looking for sex.

+1
Guess what % of the my husband opens his mouth to speak the topic is about the family versus him?

0% about anyone in the family’s needs

100% about himself (I need this or that or have to work or want this or that)

it goes both ways. What are you looking for - work hard in his job so that you can get what you want at home? If you can't understand how marriage works then no point in being in one.

I assumed the meant speaking up and voicing a concern for an elder, or the mutual child, or the XYZ broken in the house.

Who brings that stuff up and who is able to have a talk about it? If not your spouse then why be married.

If all your spouse is capable of talking about is himself, what about all the other aspects of adult life, married with kids and a house?