Yeah, and then they can get a coach to give them a verbal commitment and if that coach gets fired that commitment goes away. Could you imagine kids getting acceptance letters, and then finding out somebody on the committee was fired and all those letters were rescinded. |
+100 |
| Daughter got likely letter for Princeton well before ED |
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Yes. What are you guys talking about?
Some kids knew back in spring (spring of junior year). Harvard football was out then. |
We saw a kid do this as a junior: Committed to Ivy!! Wooohoooo!!!! Three months later: Whoops!!! Committed to baby Ivy!!! Woohooooooo!! |
Agree 100%. Don’t love these small schools where 1/3 of the kids are recruited athletes. Makes the “only the brightest students come here” seem like total bullshit. |
Yes, that's well known. So why are athletes surprised when they aren't admitted to MIT. I've heard several say that. |
If it’s so hard, don’t do it. But don’t complain about getting special treatment. |
You are saying they are more deserving. That their hard work is better than the hard work other students put in. It’s only a hook because of the American cult of the athlete and the money to be made from it. Not by any virtue of the student-athlete. It is what it is. No use pretending it’s so much harder. |
All of the coaches need to win to keep their jobs, even at the smallest, most academic schools. So they are increasingly pushing for recruiting power. I agree that it has become ridiculous. Back in our generation (the 90s) it didn't seem nearly this extreme. Schools still had plenty of athletes but many of them just kind of showed up. At a NESCAC school with 2,000 kids, so 1,000 are male, the helmet sports (baseball, football, hockey and lax) alone are probably over 15% of the men at the school. Not all of them are "recruited" and even of those recruited there is a decent percentage of them who would be getting in without sports, but there are plenty who are bumped by sports. All so they can play their sports in front of a few dozen fans excluding relatives. And note that I am a huge sports fan. |
Our DD was not an athletic recruit, but DS is. It added a whole other level of stress to the process for him, and there were no guarantees that he was going to get an offer at all, let alone from a school and team with a good fit. While it has worked out well for him in the end, the road has been littered with false hopes, rejections, frustration, and a lot of unanswered emails to coaches. |
Why do you think someone else is more deserving? Scores/grades? That does not make you deserving. |
| DD was recruited by a number of D3 high academics. Some do likely letters from admissions based on scores/grades to date. They may do that after the midpoint junior year. Some only do likely letter after you file your app which the coach wants filed on the first day that it can be filed. Then the likely letter comes shortly thereafter. We were told by one D3 that they never failed to admit after a likely letter. At a lot of the top academic D3s, admissions does not just hand out likely letters. Even with coach supprt your numbers have to be within the zone of the expected admitted students. All are pretty open with their process and what it means. |
No, I'm NOT saying they're more deserving. I'm saying it's the school who gets to determine that. I'm not even saying that's fair, because it's not. But, it is how things work. You're saying someone else is more deserving. Both sides' perspectives are subjective. There is no objective determination of "deserving." |
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What hasn't been discussed yet is the element of trust inherent in athletic recruiting. When a student commits to a school, they're committing to the process and typically stop pursuing other options. Any problems that arise between the commitment and official acceptance, and/or official signing for scholarship athletes can leave the athlete scrambling to apply elsewhere at the last minute.
Some recruited athletes at highly selective schools are often admitted with lower academic credentials than non athlete applicants. These athletes may receive likely letters indicating they'll be admitted if certain conditions are met, which can feel like preferential treatment. If you don’t like it, either get recruited as an athlete or protest by not applying to schools that recruit athletes. |