| First off, a school that is high farms 50 percent or more is not diverse. Diversity is when you have a balance of races, income, religion, etc. If one group is a majority then that is not diversity. If you want true diversity, go to Freedom Hill. A true international school where everyone is welcome and appreciated. |
Of course they don't teach to the whole class. They teach to the middle and then work with the kids behind in small groups. The kids ahead either get busy work or ignored |
We were lucky to be in a great FCPS elementary, but if I had to do it all over again, this is absolutely what I would do. And we are not Catholic. But Catholic schools are excellent, time tested, and not affected by the kind of crap coming out of Gatehouse. |
So you could offer your kids many educational/environmental advantages that high income provides but instead you chose a school with a very high FARMS rate so that your kids learn from others' poverty? What exactly are you wanting your kids to learn from this and how is this not offensive to those who are being used by you in this way? Also you are arguing that people who make different decisions are racist, yet the property values around schools with different FARMS rates tells a different story. Is everyone but you racist, or are you living in a fantasy land? |
Stop using the word "diversity" as a euphemistic stand in for something more specific that you, for whatever reason, do not want to speak. It is understandable to avoid a wealthy pyramid if your values do not align well with those of the wealthy, but no need to act like you are superior for it. |
Why are you questioning this families decsions? To each their own. Let them choose higher FARMS if they want. |
There is a misconception that Catholic schools are "excellent" especially by comparison to FCPS schools, but it depends on what your definition of "excellent" is. Are they "excellent" at weeding out kids with special needs? Sure - often times, they do not provide the depth and breadth of special needs services to students so those parents send their special needs kids to public schools to get those services. Are they "excellent" at assigning lots of busy work to give parents the impression that their students are always busy, churn out a ton of work product and are buried under homework which must mean that they are learning more than the kids in public school. Yep, sure do. Are they "excellent" because their student bodies are predominantly made up of a homogeneous pool of MC-UMC families with active parents who work together as a community to prioritize compliance instead of free-thinking? Yes again. Catholic schools are excellent at keeping MC-UMC predominantly white, similarly thinking families together to learn without the "distraction" of poor students, special needs students, LGBTQ students, and students whose families have different (read: more leftist) world views. Is that "excellent?" Apparently large swaths of families think so. But the actual level of instruction provided at each grade level is often times not as high as what one would receive in the public school system. In our FCPS pyramid, there is a very large and active K-8 Catholic school. The parents are extremely vocal about the exceptional quality of education they are paying for. Then they send their kids to the local public high school after they graduate from the Catholic school and realize that their kids have not been offered the advanced math options that FCPS offers in 5th-8th, or foreign language options in 7th/8th, and many of those kids are competent in Honors classes but fail to excel in AP classes where critical thinking is emphasized over rote memorization and regurgitation. Then the public school kids start running circles around them in the classroom. |
They may not be choosing higher FARMS so much as choosing to avoid certain areas with stuck-up parents and ostentatious wealth. |
Um, because it is an anonymous forum that thrives on debate, argument, opinion and gossip? They are making an argument that they chose high farms for the sake of their children. They are being asked to reveal more about their logic. |
When my kids started ES at a high FARMS rate school, I was very surprised by the methodologies of differentiated learning that was going on in the classroom. My advanced kids were never left behind because there were others in the classroom who were at a different learning level from them including several in each class with no English language experience. In fact, they absolutely bloomed. There are some very excellent teachers out there who are making sure that every child in their classroom is getting exactly what they need. All three of my kids are in MS/HS now, but in all of my kids' ES years, we only had 1 "dud" who wasn't great at meeting my kids' needs. |
I could see that, but in that case, choosing "very high FARMS" does not align. We are in a pyramid with a relatively high median SES but nothing like Langley and McLean and a fair amount of variation. This was the best we could afford so I am not going to pretend that the 'diversity' was our choice. There are stuck up parents but there are others who are educated/intelligent but not showy, which we like because it fits our experience. My guess would be that the poster has a cohort of families that are like her family and she has a house that she likes very much and doesn't want to move.
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Hayfield. South County. Robinson. GREAT "middle of the road" schools. |
Are you joking? |
Also the poster said not doing what she did would make a person racist...so, she is questioning others decisions rather bluntly, and others should not question hers the same?
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Umm....no? They are all relatively solid, good test scores, seemingly involved communities. Am I missing something? |