🤣 the equity focused diversity police strike again! |
Did you really choose your kids' elementary school by looking up the FARMS rates to make sure there was enough poverty there for you to give your kids the "diversity" they need to thrive? Do you realize how obnoxious and offensive this is to everyone, especially poor folks? If I was poor, the last thing I'd be doing is saying to myself I need to find a school for my kid where there's enough poor people to make me feel good about the "diverse" environment. But let's be honest, people choose higher FARMS schools when they do not have to, not because of a love of diversity, but because they want a nicer house for a better price or otherwise do not care all that much about the educational and social experiences their kids will endure. |
OMG. You are a caricature. DP |
That's an overly simplistic view. Sure we chose a location where we could have a nice house and walk to things. We very much care about the educational experiences of our kids. We could without any sacrifice afford private school. Instead we value what are children learn from being around others that may not be as fortunate as they are. Our very high rate FARMS school has very caring and dedicated teachers. There seems to be lots of extra support with the number of ESL teachers that are added to class rooms. I think it's extremely disingenuous to just assume because a school doesn't have the highest test scores with lots of esl students that the school is bad. If your scared of sending your child there you are racist or afraid that your child isn't as gifted and special as you think they are and need to be coddled. |
| OP, tourany of the garden apartments around Edsall Rd. or North Springfield/Annandale area to get a feel for the neighborhood and schools. You may just fall in love with Lynbrook ES! An underrated gem! |
| You might also want to try Timber Lane ES. |
Are you at lynbrook? Can you share a bit more about the environment? |
86 percent Latino 72 percent ELL 68 percent FARMS Lewis HS feeder. IB program. |
NP. I don’t know what makes you think you can speak for others. We deliberately avoided the Langley pyramid because we didn’t want that type of environment for our kids. We are more comfortable with greater diversity and believe it helps kids develop better social skills and empathy. |
Wow. Another caricature!
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Not necessarily stats, but if you find it to be a gem....what's the pta like? Clubs? Activities, involvement of parents? Extracurriculars? Teachers?? Thanks for any insight |
I have two elementary schoolers and i generally agree with this post. My kids are “bright average”/above average based on standardized tests and grades. We are at a high SES, AAP center school and my kids are in Gen Ed. I am really glad we aren’t at a school where I feel like my kids “have” to be in AAP in order to be challenged and to have a good peer group. There are plenty of bright above average kids in Gen Ed at my kids’ school and they are getting what they need. This is because the vast majority of families at the school care about education regardless of whether their children are gifted or not. I have friends in other parts of the county and they have put a lot of pressure/stress on themselves and their kids to try to get into AAP at schools where they worry that the peer group in Gen Ed is not going to beneficial to their children. Some people here love to say “oh your kids will be first be at any school in FCPS” because they have kids who are or almost certainly will be in AAP. OP you know your kids and you and your spouse’s academic history best. If your kids aren’t likely to be a lock for advanced academics I do not recommend a school where most parents who care about education feel that it’s “AAP or bust”. |
The person who wrote that is a SAHM, I bet. |
I mean, you went way off the rails in the end. You start by saying the PP was presenting an overly simplistic view, then give a mere two possibilities as the only reasons parents chose not to send a kid to a high farms school. It’s a real PC-police-type post. Do you think only your thought process is valid? No diversity of thought allowed? When kids are around other kids that are high SES there are often higher expectations on the kids, which can translate into a kid striving for more academically. How do I know? Because I was that kid when I was younger. It’s a big reason that doesn’t fit into your worldview that all rich people are bad, but it’s a compelling reason to prefer a high performing school. I’d also be much more okay with a high farms percentage school if it didn’t have notable gang activity. That’s a big deal breaker for me. |
I’m curious- why would you avoid those schools? |