Problem child in classroom

[Anonymous]

OP - I feel for you and I do think most of those responding are likely those with "problem children" themselves. My DC has had 2 children in classes over the years who were time-suckers and extremely disruptive. One was diagnosed with a learning/behavioral difference and counseled out (its a main-stream private school). Interestingly, the other kids did not complain about this kid. I think they intuitively knew there was something else going on. I heard about it from an unusual source/way. The second child merely has parents who suck at parenting. By that I mean the kind who threaten their kid with everything under the sun and never actually do anything. The dad seems to think his child is hilarious and has a kind of "boys will be boys" attitude. In that case, the school did recognize the probelm and had the parents come in for some "learning" themselves (still on-going but seems to be helping). In neither case did I ever have to say anything to anyone other than my child (when DC was upset or angry over some occurrence).

[Anonymous]

OP, please stop posting. Each post you publish makes me dislike you more and more.

[Anonymous]

OP = troll. Same one posting all over. She figured out how to use paragraphs. She's like the Cybil of our message board.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Seems I am not the first to consider a complaint about this child, as his parents are on here! Interesting. I will not tell you what area or what school, or even public or private, lest someone here have a bone to pick with my answer (on DCUM - egads!); and from the reaction to this child in their school, the child would definitely stick out. Seems the child and the parents have made a reputation for themselves already.

I don't know the parents, but those who do let me know what was going on behind the scenes, without reason for sharing or not sharing. I am observing for myself, and have been taking time from a full time job to do so. Believe me, I wish I could spend time doing other things, but my child's education is too important to me. I don't feel I should have to defend this. And those of you who are NOT the child's parents on here seem to get it.

So I might ask now, why does your child demand so much attention? Is it learned at home?

I know a favored response on DCUM is "I know you are but what am I" - but really I do appreciate those who have no vested interest who have taken the time. Really.

For the record, I am not relying on DCUM for whatever measures are taken. I do not believe the other class parents are on here. I do see reason to believe that the parents of the child which sparked this thread are, based on the similar responses posted today. That says far more about them than me.

My child's education is first and foremost. No matter what.

Is that even English? I mean, the WORDS are English, but the syntax . . . are you trying to do Yoda?

My thought exactly. I'm hoping English is not the OP's first language, because then she'll be stupid as well as nasty.

And for the record, OP, my kids are 2 yrs old and not in school yet, so I can't be the parents against whom you are waging your vendetta.

[Anonymous]

OP here. It is interesting with one or two backings PP accuses me of something imagined in their paranoia. But I must say, you have an active imagination!

I agree with 22:22. What these parents do not realize is that they try so hard to ostracize other children (to deflect from their own), yet their own children are the ones ostracized by the other kids. Whatever you are doing, try something else!

The parents are not doing their child any favors by trying to be up (perceived queen bee's) ass. This is not the way to deal with your child's problem. QB is turning on you and is one of the people I have heard.

22:55 - who has posted here before, stop being such a bully. You and your children are clearly not doing well by it. Are you planning to try bully your way into everything for your child?

[Anonymous]

I think OP is taking some kind of medication. Words some out of her but aren't arranged in a an order that makes sense. Oh well, have a nice life OP and hope it all gets sorted out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is interesting with one or two backings PP accuses me of something imagined in their paranoia. But I must say, you have an active imagination!

I agree with 22:22. What these parents do not realize is that they try so hard to ostracize other children (to deflect from their own), yet their own children are the ones ostracized by the other kids. Whatever you are doing, try something else!

The parents are not doing their child any favors by trying to be up (perceived queen bee's) ass. This is not the way to deal with your child's problem. QB is turning on you and is one of the people I have heard.

22:55 - who has posted here before, stop being such a bully. You and your children are clearly not doing well by it. Are you planning to try bully your way into everything for your child?

OP, you are a douche.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. It is interesting with one or two backings PP accuses me of something imagined in their paranoia. But I must say, you have an active imagination!

I agree with 22:22. What these parents do not realize is that they try so hard to ostracize other children (to deflect from their own), yet their own children are the ones ostracized by the other kids. Whatever you are doing, try something else!

The parents are not doing their child any favors by trying to be up (perceived queen bee's) ass. This is not the way to deal with your child's problem. QB is turning on you and is one of the people I have heard.

22:55 - who has posted here before, stop being such a bully. You and your children are clearly not doing well by it. Are you planning to try bully your way into everything for your child?

wow, you have really gone off the rails- I no longer have any idea what you are saying. Obviously, you are not here looking for true advice (which several PPs generously gave), just validation which you are irked not to have received. and with each additional post it becomes more and more clear that you have some serious issues of your own that you should be concentrating on. I hope, for your kid's sake, that you direct this energy inward and focus on your own family.

[Anonymous]

Have another drink. It will improve your logic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have another drink. It will improve your logic.

Don't egg her on. She needs to get off this board and return to complaining and plotting to make herself feel better about her own life . I had an aunt like that who criticized everyone (from problem teachers to problem students) in her daughter's classes. It took my cousin a few years of therapy to get over it.