J Lo was at the party, in lots of photos, also could have been her. |
I thought it was Mary J. Bilge, not sure where I read that. |
This! Based only on his relationship w/ Beyonce it's clear he is/was a groomer. Not surprised in any way. |
This is what's worse than individual crimes, corrupting, encouraging, emboldening and tainting perversion among youngsters. I'm a prude so take it with some grains of salt but music industry has changed since MTV and rap wave. Over-sexualization of music and dance happened under influence of these pervert sex addicts and society welcomed it as creative gospel. Just like drug lords, these are music lords who are gatekeepers and can ask for your voice, body, first born or mental health for an entry and for business. Why the heck every singer needs to wear underwear and/or have two dozen semi nude dancers and put on a sex show to get a hit song in this industry? Imagine if these people were gays or trans, what an uproar would that be but no these are your straight "respectable" and influential family men with teen children of their own. |
You know what, I'm thinking of the other movie Eighth Grade - which was so painful that I can't even really bear to think about it; this awkward child struggling to come of age in a relentlessly online world. I didn't see Thirteen. Sorry. |
J Lo was Diddy's date on the red carpet and an after party. ![]() ![]() |
hip hop/rap needs to have a public reckoning Me Too moment where the men still at the top of the industry come out and acknowledge the deep strain of misogyny and abuse. I’m thinking of men like Dr. Dre who were notoriously violent, who appear to have reformed, but really need to stand up more publicly and say NEVER AGAIN. |
I actually thought his statement was good, and string, and convincing. Which surprised me. I went from being like “meh another rapist, no kidding” to being like “yeah he is right this sounds like a money grab” |
I don't know anything about his music but his entire catalogue is full of vile misogynistic lyrics and even song titles frequently featuring the word b*****. He clearly hates women and has no respect for women. He frequently details women are nothing but f*** toys who can't say no to him. First song I found on Google from the same era of this alleged assault: "Don't make me say it twice... you get hit off (screwed) and then I slide off (leave)... so take your shirt off and don't hit me with any church s***... b*****, b*****, b*****."
Another song from that era details "turning out" someone's wife or girlfriend to pimp her out to his pals. The song's title is "Is That Your B****." |
I lean toward him being guilty, but yes, it was a pretty strong statement and gives pause. There has to be more to this story. I can buy the "feeling ashamed and not sure if she consented" angle for a college student. If that happened to my daughter at age 21 I would try to support her decision on whether to report the crime. If my 13 year old called me from a gas station wearing strange clothes and had been raped, no way I'm not taking her to a hospital and involving police no matter what she says. There's more to this story, if true... either the family is incredibly dysfunctional or Jay-Z's people used intimidation tactics on the family.
That's all well and good, until your sophisticated daughter takes just one drink, and it does not have to be alcoholic, that was given to her unsealed. Then she could find herself in the exact same position as this young girl claims: at a cool party, drugged, and woozy with zero ability to protect herself. |
Page Six is reporting that Beyonce's mother liked a post that announced the charges. That seems telling. |
Mary J has a rough past. I pray she isn't involved in this. |
Were you born yesterday? This is the reason Diddy is still in jail with no bond. I have no doubt Jay Z and Diddy would have threatened them, just like they have probably been doing for decades to others. Listen to Anna Kane's story. She was 17 when Diddy trafficked her. She finally agreed to put her name on her case. |
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Most of these famous entertainers are sheer evil. Kids shouldn’t be allowed to get swallowed up by this garbage. |