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Yep, looks like the evil moron thought he could clean up the evidence. |
I don’t think that’s right. They’ll just need to go to court to get legal custody of her but that shouldn’t be hard if the dad is found guilty of the murder (or doesn’t content the petition). They will probably easily get a visa to come here for the time it takes to care for the child. Hopefully they can afford to do that, and that someone can put them up so they don’t have to stay in the house where their daughter was killed (which wouldn’t be an option if the husband is released on bail pending trial). |
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Her longtime friend, coworker, and former roommate Nadia, who started this Facebook group, is hoping to get custody - at least temporarily.
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61563893469372 Nadia has worked tirelessly to lead search efforts and spread the word. There's a gofundme to help her search efforts, which may possibly be used to support the orphaned little girl. By all accounts Nadia seems like a trustworthy, determined, and incredibly kind woman. |
I bet that disgusting man was thinking no one would raise the alarm about her being missing because she had no family here (and they are far away and essentially powerless) and not many friends. I'm certain he was counting on this not turning into a huge story and maybe even ending up being something like a cold missing person's case. But Nadia made sure that did not happen - so Mamta had at least one true friend here who loved her and fought for her and her daughter, and that made a huge difference. |
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The reports that she would go away for days at a time and then return; do those seem now like lies that the husband told?
I don’t know the source, I have just read that in more than one online place. |
Yes, those are lies. He thought that would throw police off the trail. Idiot. |
+100 Here's the gofundme. There are lots of nutty gofundme's out there (most of them), but I trust this one. Nadia was seen making a list of things she'd need to take care of the little girl. And no, she's not putting pictures of herself out there. https://gofund.me/77f99761 |
I read somewhere (but it may have been here, so take it with a grain of salt) that on the previous occasions when she "went away for days" she took her daughter, but this time she didn't and that's why her friends were so freaked. That scenario reads to me like she was being abused and sometimes fled the house with her baby, but this time didn't escape. |
I recently watched the Laci Peterson documentary on Netflix and was drawing this parallel between these two cases. Scott Peterson seemed delusional in thinking that he could stage some “disappearance” while walking the dog and that a couple months later he could sell Laci’s car and the marital house, and just what … go on with his life? Like her friends and family (and the community as a whole) would just sort of shrug a wonder where she went? And in this case, Mamta’s husband apparently made up some story about how she wasn’t missing, then did report her missing, and … what exactly did he realistically think would happen? Like her family would just not care or give up because they are far away? And local police would not see anything sketchy about his actions and allow him to just carry on with his life? These men are so narcissistic as to believe that because they want their wife gone that no one else will miss her or pursue her disappearance for more than a short period of time. It’s actually quite horrifying. My heart goes out to the little girl and Mamta’s friends/family. |
Do you live in the neighborhood? |
I’ve become acquainted with Nadia beginning the Monday before last we I met her at a search she was organizing at Blooms Park. She is a sweet soul. A genuinely good and decent human being. |
| What if the mother had postpartum depression? I wonder what evidence they found. |
There is no evidence she had PPD. On previous occasions (I can't tell if there were more than one), she left the house, but told people where she was, and was reachable. Not so this time. She had also apparently posted previously that her husband had emptied out her savings, and in February, she was seeking help to divorce him. |
| was it an arranged marriage? thought I read that somewhere. |
I believe so, yes. The unfortunate side effect of that is that she has no family here. They're all in Nepal, and her baby had to go to CPS (her friends are working on getting the baby released to them). |