This. My kid is a legacy + more than two decades as a professor. |
Why do you care so much if she wasn’t going to go? It is a matter of bragging rights? |
What does the interviewer being a lesbian have to do with anything? |
I thought that was odd, too. The background of the interviewer and location of the interview aren’t relevant. |
It has everything to do with it. They paired her with someone quite opposite of her and not familiar with her life circumstances. If I said my DD were black, urban and liberal and they paired her with a white male rural conservative you'd agree it was inappropriate. |
The interviewer assignments are completely random - no one is getting matched up with people who have the same "life experiences." I've done GU alum interviews. |
Doesn't make it any crappier. |
Well I guess there were kids more qualified---better scores, grades, ECs and essays. Maybe the tide is changing and GU is backing off its really ridiculous stance on legacy where any distant connection--a grad or law or whatever was considered enough to propel someone over a candidate that had no hooks. |
THIS HAPPENS EVERYWHERE. My son had mostly women, minorites and trans or other sexualities for all of his interviews at Ivies/SLACs/GU, etc. If your kid can't handle interviewing with someone that is not exactly like them or doesn't know their life story, well that right there shows you that maybe they aren't cut out for it. Schools look for kids that can handle anything. |
Neither of you sound like very nice people. Probably the cocky arrogance and entitlement set off the interviewer. It reeks from your posts. |
And the "package' doesn't matter. One of the best interviews my son had and kept talking about is one with someone who is so different than him in so many ways--but they did have the same love for the field of study. My kid has grown up in a very diverse area, public school k-8 and has friends from all walks of life so he can shoot the sh*t with anyone. |
This. They don’t pair your interview with anyone in particular except 2 criteria: interviewer is an alum (current student, etc - however the school does it) + interviewer is available. admissions offices know little, if anything, about the interviewer and interviewee in so far as how they would math personality wise. |
My kid had very high stats and I thought a great package but you’re right- for whatever reason, kid was rejected. Legacy didn’t matter nor was it a crappy package and we were relying on legacy to push it thru. |
This happened to my kid with Hopkins (2 parent alums). He was above the threshhold on SCOIR and perfectGPA,top scores (near perfect), great ECs, etc. Frankly, he mentioned the legacy in the supplemental and I actually think that hurt him. They don't like his kind (DEI email blast) and they don't like legacy there anymore. They actively publish how the legacy admits have dropped--so letting one in would mess with the stats. |
BUT you said she wasn’t even going if she got in. So you just wanted them to give her a pity admit so you could throw it in their face and say Thanks, but no thanks and feel smug. Fortunately they saw through you (and the 3 trailing 3 generations) of pettiness and gave you the boot first. Go Georgetown! |