Yield protection? Not enough interest expressed in essays? Other kids from your school already going?? |
It’s understandable that you’re upset, but that’s the part that stuck out for me. “She wasn’t going to go.” It sounds like they could tell and your DD will still have a bright future. |
Mine would have gone had she gotten in. Very disappointed 2x alum. |
Interesting. Where are you located? DMV? Texas? |
Would pick Rice in a millisecond over Gtown for anything STEM. |
Grad school alum isn't a hook and unless your family was given 6-7 figure gifts, then being a legacy really isn't a hook. And she wasn't going to go and that probably reflected in her essays and interview. So you shouldn't really be shocked. |
You weren't expecting to get accepted to ALL of the reach schools you applied to, were you? If so, that's unrealistic. |
They probably could tell she wasn't going to go or her stats were not high enough. It is very competitive. |
Hmm. Your thoughts on affirmative action? |
Agree. I get where you are coming from PP. Your kid got into single digit acceptance rate schools and waitlisted to slightly easier admits. Mine did, too. But with reaches the expectation is to get rejected from most or even all. With targets a fifty/fifty balance would be expected. There is no such thing as, "My kid got into Amherst, therefore he should have gotten into Georgetown." They are both reaches for anyone. Even in MY day, three decades ago, this was true. |
Waitlisted Villanova and Tufts. In at Pomona, BC, Georgetown, UVA, WM Monroe, waiting on Ivies tonight. I do think they can tell when you are a 'back-up'. My kid is seriously interested in the 5 he did get into, and Tufts and Villanova were afterthought applications after getting deferred from GU EA. |
DMV Big3 |
where is your child leaning towards if no Ivy? |
Her interviewer was a lesbian woman in a hotel lobby who basically crapped on my DD's many athletic achievements and spent the 15 minutes big upping 'diversity.' It was garbage. |
Yes, I know. I went there. Twice. And my DH went there. So did his father. Oh, and my father taught there for a decade and a half. I kinda know the place. |