Tomorrow was supposed to be my wedding day

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Thank GOD you didn’t have kids with this guy.

Yes! We even talked about having kids! I already have one, but was open to having more with him.

Now you can really be free of him. Can you imagine being tied to him forever via kids, knowing this is who he truly is? Chilling.

That’s wonderful that you already have a kid, too! So many women settle for jerks due to biological realities. You’ll be able to take your time and find the right guy for you. I’m sorry it hurts so much right now, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. Who is out the deposits? Did you give the ring back? Are your friends and relatives supportive?

I'm sorry, OP. You are wise to look at what really matters, which is that you don't want to be stuck with this man.

We both are. I still have the ring. Friends have reached out. I haven’t been up for chatting so I’ve just been texting that I’m okay!

I think he should pay you back for the deposits. You relied on his promise to marry you. He should be the one to pay for the deposits.

Don’t give the ring back yet! Maybe you can sell it. Depends on the state whether you have to give it back. Tell me your state and I will research it for you

I’m in Maryland. It would be nice if I could sell it.

Google is telling me that in Maryland you get to keep the ring because he broke off the engagement. Keep the ring. Sell it. Get some money.

Ask an attorney in Maryland

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow. Who is out the deposits? Did you give the ring back? Are your friends and relatives supportive?

I'm sorry, OP. You are wise to look at what really matters, which is that you don't want to be stuck with this man.

We both are. I still have the ring. Friends have reached out. I haven’t been up for chatting so I’ve just been texting that I’m okay!

I think he should pay you back for the deposits. You relied on his promise to marry you. He should be the one to pay for the deposits.

Don’t give the ring back yet! Maybe you can sell it. Depends on the state whether you have to give it back. Tell me your state and I will research it for you

I’m in Maryland. It would be nice if I could sell it.

Google is telling me that in Maryland you get to keep the ring because he broke off the engagement. Keep the ring. Sell it. Get some money.

Not accurate. She should ask an attorney.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/engagement-ring-laws-by-state

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh boo-hoo. Cry me a river. It happens all the time. You’ll meet someone a thousand times better and the other guy won’t even be a blip on your radar.

You are an as$hole.

Thank you I take pride in being an a-hole.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You should not be out any money - if you put down any money or owe any money, make him pay for it. And keep the ring.

Sending you hugs.

As someone said on a different thread: "Oh, look, the trash took itself out!"

He's trash, pure trash.

Make him pay for it how?

Take him to small claims court.

And what grounds does she have? Is there any supporting documentation stating he would pay if they break up? I highly doubt a judge would grant her money based off sympathy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The ring is not a gift. In most states, it is not hers unless they got married. It is contingent on the contract being fulfilled. She should return it.

Total troll. There is no contract and he gave it to you, keep it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The ring is not a gift. In most states, it is not hers unless they got married. It is contingent on the contract being fulfilled. She should return it.

Total troll. There is no contract and he gave it to you, keep it.

True. Let him take you to small claims court if he wants to.

Sounds like you dodged a bullet there, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should not be out any money - if you put down any money or owe any money, make him pay for it. And keep the ring.

Sending you hugs.

As someone said on a different thread: "Oh, look, the trash took itself out!"

He's trash, pure trash.

Why is that, exactly?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How long did you know him? How long had you been engaged?

Sorry. It really hurts now. You will recover.

We met almost 5 years ago. Got engaged last Valentine’s Day.

He has a real Valentine's Day fetish, doesn't he?

I'm sorry for your pain, OP. And echo the others saying this is for the best although it doesn't feel like it now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My fiancé called off the engagement on Valentine’s Day due to realizing he’s not physically attracted to me anymore. I haven’t heard from him since. I’m glad it happened prior to saying, “I do”, but this really sucks! I’ve never felt so down and defeated.

And you felt compelled to come on DCUM and tell everyone about it. Fake.