So, Whose Husband Has Done Absolutely Nothing for Valentine’s Day?

[Anonymous]

Got the usual cheap candy and card he went to cvs for on his way home today.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Can't stand these types of posts.

Tell us what you did for him.

I got him some really thoughtful gifts that he loves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mine never did. Or birthdays. Married 10 years. Divorced.

Same. Everything was stupid. Not anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:Unless there is some surprise coming later, which I strongly doubt, I am raising my hand.

If you are the type of person who craves attention on Valentines Day, and he is the type who thinks it is no big deal, they why did you marry him? you CHOSE him as your husband. the only person you should be mad at is YOU.

I hate these “life is a choice” posters SO MUCH. Sometimes people disappoint you or you make compromises you regret and it’s okay to vent. No one needs Accountability Annie wagging a sanctimonious finger as if they’re the only adult in the room.

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Anonymous wrote:Mine got me those mix of flowers from Costco for $23. A quarter of them were dead. You know the ones with crysanthenums, and those oversized orange daisey flowers, a few carnations and loaded with greenery. I can't stand those bouquets. Get me carnations any day over those or hey how about roses. Like those even though they don't last long. Costco has gotten so cheap they put more of the green leafy stuff than actual flowers. It made me feel so shitty. I work hard and that's my worth crappy flowers. Why the f**k does Costco sell dead flowers to people? I would rather have had nothing than that bouquet of half dead flowers. My husband came home from work and thought it was funny that the others guys were rushing around on Valentine's Day picking up flowers for their wives from an actual flower shop the expensive kind over a $100. He presented mine on Feb. 13 and then complained to me about the congested parking lot. How Romantic. Why don't I just give it up and walk.

Yes. Mine always buys the cheapest flowers and thinks he is being so cute with it being “our flower.” It’s not cute, it makes me sad every time and knows it. Buy real flowers.

[Anonymous]

It would annoy me to be taken out to dinner on Valentine’s Day unless the man was rich enough that he could afford to waste money on overpriced hype. I bought my bf gifts weeks ahead to avoid the hysteria and he made me a lovely dinner at home.

[Anonymous]

My DH gave be 2 dozen roses and I made an excellent 3 course dinner for us and the children to enjoy. It was a good day.

[Anonymous]

We agreed not to do anything this year, I haven’t been feeling well and we have been so busy. We snuggled after dinner and that was enough. Maybe we will go out to dinner in a few weeks. It’s not a make or break for our relationship.

[Anonymous]

For the woman with a boyfriend, did he eventually come through with something?

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend has done nothing and it's really bugging me. If he can't at least go through the motions to try and make some effort, I really don't think I want to be with him anymore. Surely he knows other women are going out and getting flowers delivered. It feels bad to be left out and see other women have boyfriends who make the effort. He's got a few hours and if nothing materializes I'm going to break up with him. By opting out of valentines day he's basically indicating that's what he is risking.

Is this your first Valentines Day together? Does he know that it’s important to you?

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Anonymous wrote:We never do anything for Valentine’s Day, so we stuck with that tradition. He DID, however, order flowers for his girlfriend which seems a bit uncool.

[Anonymous]

We did the usual little things, small gifts and time together.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH gave be 2 dozen roses and I made an excellent 3 course dinner for us and the children to enjoy. It was a good day.

Do you have any friends? I’m guessing not.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH gave be 2 dozen roses and I made an excellent 3 course dinner for us and the children to enjoy. It was a good day.

Do you have any friends? I’m guessing not.

I’ve generally found that smug, insensitive women tend to be the loneliest.

[Anonymous]

The roses and the dinner sound nice. Don’t take the nasty comment to heart. These continually mean comments from one poster just reveal how mean-spirited and jealous that person is.