Are yoga pants ok?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

OP here. Can you tell me more about how this related to red pill? They don’t like yoga pants?

[Anonymous]

He sounds difficult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honest answer: If you've got a great body with nice legs and ass, yes you can wear yoga pants out. But, keep in mind at this point yoga pants is similar to sweatpants so it comes off as lazy.

I have realized, through dating, then men have strong lazy detector. They’ll tell you to go it face.

[Anonymous]

- your face -

[Anonymous]

From an article about red pillers:

"But while attitude adjustments are seen as more critical than superficial makeovers, appearance is still seen as a vitally important part of securing — and retaining — a relationship. Much of The Red Pill philosophy revolves around the notion of SMV (that’s “sexual market value”); the higher your SMV is, the better your chances of getting the partner you want. And since for women, SMV is pretty much all about looks, it’s hardly surprising that the discussion not infrequently ventures into sartorial terrain."

Run far away OP.

[Anonymous]

They also feel that way about makes up. It costs me nothing so I do it. It’s easy.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s rude to wear yoga pants to anywhere but working out/around the house. To me it says, I don’t care about making an effort to get properly dressed for you because I do not care about you.

Clearly, not everyone agrees with me. That’s fine, but for a partner, I think it’s better to see eye to eye on these sorts of things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

OP here. Can you tell me more about how this related to red pill? They don’t like yoga pants?

Red pillers believe that women should be the mans ideal woman at all times. That is generally a tradwife, wearing dresses, heels,
The only thing that matters is the mans opinion, and what he says goes. He may have told you this about yoga pants as a test to see if you'll cave in and put his opinion on a pedestal.

"To offer a crash course in Red Pill attire is to simply say throw out all your pants, flats, t-shirts, and boring underwear. (Of course you can keep a pair of jeans around for gardening and the like). This is not to be tawdry and sleazy (although there is a place for that in the bedroom). Definitely emphasize your curves. The outfit should hint at what’s beneath, but not give away the candy store for free."

"When you fully ingest the Red pill you will despise your husband for NOT demanding you dress better. What high status man would put up with a woman who has such low standards!? Why does he put up with this? Why does he lack a backbone to go for what he wants? Why is he being such a pussy? And when he finally comes around and says “those shoes are unacceptable, put on your black pumps before we go out” you will get the tingles. Now he’s not taking any crap. Now he has standards. Now he cherishes me. Now he motivates me to be my best. Now he is acting like a man. Not dressing nicely for your man is a slap in the face."

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1glauz/how_to_dress/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honest answer: If you've got a great body with nice legs and ass, yes you can wear yoga pants out. But, keep in mind at this point yoga pants is similar to sweatpants so it comes off as lazy.

I have realized, through dating, then men have strong lazy detector. They’ll tell you to go it face.

A good strong man is normally result driven. Goals are the way to behave in life. So, if he sees a woman who is lazy it's very unattractive. If two people are dating and he comes to the date (even coffee) in slacks, shirt, etc and the girl walks in with yoga pants and a t-shirt it may come off as "lazy". But, (and this is how the world works) if she's hot as hell and has a 10/10 body he's not going to care.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honest answer: If you've got a great body with nice legs and ass, yes you can wear yoga pants out. But, keep in mind at this point yoga pants is similar to sweatpants so it comes off as lazy.

Is one never allowed to be lazy? Even on a weekend winter outing to a bookstore?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honest answer: If you've got a great body with nice legs and ass, yes you can wear yoga pants out. But, keep in mind at this point yoga pants is similar to sweatpants so it comes off as lazy.

Is one never allowed to be lazy? Even on a weekend winter outing to a bookstore?

Sure, you’re allowed to be lazy, but other people are allowed to judge. Really, how hard is it to put on a pair of real pants/jeans and a blouse? Whenever I see someone out and about in workout clothes, I assume they haven’t brushed their teeth and showered yet either. Because both of those a harder than putting on pants.

[Anonymous]

Run, OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.