Are yoga pants ok?

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Anonymous wrote:Honest answer: If you've got a great body with nice legs and ass, yes you can wear yoga pants out. But, keep in mind at this point yoga pants is similar to sweatpants so it comes off as lazy.

Is one never allowed to be lazy? Even on a weekend winter outing to a bookstore?

Sure, you’re allowed to be lazy, but other people are allowed to judge. Really, how hard is it to put on a pair of real pants/jeans and a blouse? Whenever I see someone out and about in workout clothes, I assume they haven’t brushed their teeth and showered yet either. Because both of those a harder than putting on pants.

This guy should limit himself to dating only other uptight people then. The vast majority of young women consider yoga pants/leggings a totally normal option for a bookstore visit. Moreover most normal nice boyfriends in fact don’t judge on such superficialities. OP says she dresses up for date nights. If he feels entitled to nitpick her casual weekend clothes that really sounds very entitled & controlling.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

you sound like an awesome boyfriend!! gl!

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

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Anonymous wrote:Some of these last comments are really disgusting. Just because someone has fat rolls or cellulite doesnt mean they cant wear whatever they want. News alert - a fat person wearing yoga pants or jeans is still fat. You will still see them, you will still notice how fat they are, and if youre one of the people above fat shaming, you'll still judge and degrade them.
Let people wear what they want, and stop ogling people in public if it makes you so uncomfortable!

Anyways OP. Your bf sounds like a red piller/incel. Some of that verbiage is straight up from their playbook. I would not date someone who tried to police my clothing.

A person can wear what they want. But, people around them have a right to their opinion and thought. It works both ways. If you're fat and want to wear tight clothes. Fine. But, it's also fine for people who see you to judge you and think it's gross.

It goes both ways.

I'd rather someone be comfortable and confident than throw shade. YMMV, and if it makes you feel better to degrade and make fun of someone else, that's your own issue.

And your issue is you want everyone to see you through the eyes of your mother and think you are beautiful just as you are. We aren’t mom and you’re not beautiful.

I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about all women.

Sorry you are such a hateful negative person. I try to treat people with love and kindness instead of disdain and poison. It really costs nothing to be a nice person. It costs nothing to move your eyes away from someone you find so disgusting. Good luck.

NP, I don’t go around telling people they’re ugly, still I can’t help but judge a fat lady in yoga pants. Believe me, I’m not alone. It’s gross to let yourself go that far that you’re obese and it’s even grosser that you wear yoga pants to show it off. And everyone’s supposed to support you for some reason. Personally, I think people like that a huge narcissists are who think the world revolves around them. They have no interest in other people’s comfort or feelings. They are not nice people.

LOL that is clear!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

So you want to control what women wear because other men are pigs?
You want to punish your female partner for her choice of clothing because you ogle other womens asses?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

That's likely it, but if op is attractive, men will check her out however she's styled.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

So you want to control what women wear because other men are pigs?
You want to punish your female partner for her choice of clothing because you ogle other womens asses?

We aren't talking about what I want. I was explaining to her why he is behaving the way he is.

Are you dumb or something? Serious question.

[Anonymous]

Why do I care if other dudes ogle my gf's ass? She's with me, and that's not going to change because other guys look at what they're not getting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

Guy here and I don’t ogle woman. Wear what you want. I am also generally in love the no yoga pants camp. One thing if you actually put effort into the whole outfit, but few woman actually pull this off.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

So you want to control what women wear because other men are pigs?
You want to punish your female partner for her choice of clothing because you ogle other womens asses?

We aren't talking about what I want. I was explaining to her why he is behaving the way he is.

Are you dumb or something? Serious question.

You might be. What is the point of controlling a womans outfit based on what other men might think or do? Why is that OPs problem? She isnt allowed to look good while out and about? Do you think all women should wear hideous sack dresses so as to not provoke a mans eyes?

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Anonymous wrote:Why do I care if other dudes ogle my gf's ass? She's with me, and that's not going to change because other guys look at what they're not getting.

Not all men have that level of self-assurance. Some men, likely including OP's boyfriend, are possessive and insecure and that sort of thing bothers or even enrages them. Surely you know this. It's not a new idea.

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Anonymous wrote:Why do I care if other dudes ogle my gf's ass? She's with me, and that's not going to change because other guys look at what they're not getting.

Not all men have that level of self-assurance. Some men, likely including OP's boyfriend, are possessive and insecure and that sort of thing bothers or even enrages them. Surely you know this. It's not a new idea.

That isnt OPs problem.

It is a sign that he will be insecure and controlling in other things, especially if one outfit "enrages them". Good cue to drop this loser and find someone with pps confidence.

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Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend is upset because I wore yoga pants around him. We went to a bookstore and to grab a cup of coffee. He says yoga pants are for doing yoga, and that if he puts in real clothes to see me I should do the same.

He doesn't like that other men are ogling your ass.

Do you like that other men ogle your ass?

Serious question.

So you want to control what women wear because other men are pigs?
You want to punish your female partner for her choice of clothing because you ogle other womens asses?

We aren't talking about what I want. I was explaining to her why he is behaving the way he is.

Are you dumb or something? Serious question.

You might be. What is the point of controlling a womans outfit based on what other men might think or do? Why is that OPs problem? She isnt allowed to look good while out and about? Do you think all women should wear hideous sack dresses so as to not provoke a mans eyes?

Again -- and I realize you're exceedingly dim but do please try to keep up -- this is not about what *I* think. I'm merely explaining one possibility for the OP's boyfriend's attitude. Your bizarre need to make this about what *I* think just suggests that you're a 'tard or something.

Using this "insult" really says a lot about you. You seem like a really sad and insecure individual. Hope 2024 gets better for you.