I figured out what men want!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men just wanna be told they’re awesome all the time.

If they take their own plate to the sink, they want to be told good job!

In bed you must pretend they’re the most amazing lay you’ve ever had.

If they tell you something you already know, you have to pretend to be so thankful with all wonder in the world to be impart this knowledge from them.

I mean, it’s pretty simple.

+1 Nailed it. This is actually what most men want. And if your DH is a good one, you should do this. Most cheaters I know have cheated for this kind of validation, not because AP is hot or anything.

Maybe you have a way of knowing what “most men want” but this doesn’t fit my experience at all. In our good marriage there’s none of this, and as far as I can tell in all our friends’ good marriages this isn’t the case either. Most of our friend group has very educated and high expectation women who don’t spend time transparently boosting their husband’s egos. I don’t think high value men depend on this kind of validation. They want an equal partner.

Pretty much.

Affectionate life partners. It's not a game. It's not roles. It's besties who like to have sex with each other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men just wanna be told they’re awesome all the time.

If they take their own plate to the sink, they want to be told good job!

In bed you must pretend they’re the most amazing lay you’ve ever had.

If they tell you something you already know, you have to pretend to be so thankful with all wonder in the world to be impart this knowledge from them.

I mean, it’s pretty simple.

You must be married to a low confidence loser who you treat like a five year old. Except for the in bed line, the others are what works with a five year old.

Nope just have a life filled with men and I see patterns.